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I've already identified anticipation of needs and monitoring of progress as facets of ownership (of an area of work.) So, how does ownership *feel*?https://twitter.com/fvathynevgl/status/1388061863729057797 Both anticipation and monitor

Random geekery thread: Murano glass What I already know (kinda): glass produced in Venice; it was a protected secret of the local glassmaker guild who had a policy of "you

What hobbies are strategically good, and what hobbies are strategically bad? Eg. it's strategically bad to concentrate too much on "multiplier" interests.Examples of multiplier interests: psychology/sociology/politics, convers

Lasting (romantic) relationships~a thread of personal opinions~1/n Some people who struggle with relationships because they approach them like diets: apply willpower, achieve a socially approved result, stop making an effort,

Thinking about online communities I’m a part of.What is it that makes one feel like they belong to a community rather than an observer to a bunch of strangers talking?

An article about friendship showed up on my timeline, and I have unspecific uneasy feels about it. I'm going to try and poke at them via Twitter. This is an

If you meet people through Twitter:1) how do you identify approachable people?2) what do you do to make yourself approachable?1/n Check 1: is this person interesting?Sources: bio, avi, header, external

Here’s another thing that the cooperative spherical cow model elides: networks.https://twitter.com/fvathynevgl/status/1241046445244981248 The conflict resolution advice is: “if you can’t deal, leave.”But we rarely have 1:1 relationships without surro

People think (group X) gets things for free or easily - jobs, admission to uni, sexual partners, funding, whatever.This causes resentment on both sides: “Why not me?”, and, funnily enough,

My feed is full of success porn.It looks like this: thirst trap photos, book announcements, personal breakthroughs, thanking the fans, project success photos, photos of babies and/or pets.1/n This is

Good compliments are observations~a short thread~ Today, I remembered something I read about (likely in a book about trauma): a child develops their self-image based on feedback from parents.Parents have

Imma poke a bit at spontaneity and playfulness. Expect a slow-post introspective thread. I find posting on Twitter to be valuable, because I can't edit and reorder posts. It limits