#DARVO

Dr. Christina Fattore

cfattorewvu

But what happens when the bully *is* your chair+ yr Dean backs him up? That’s what happened to me in 2014. And again in 2015. And in 2016. It took

Lori Anne Thompson R Kin. BSCH Kin. MA CHAD

LoriAnneThomps2

A few short thoughts on a long topic: 1. Abusers do not abuse all people — only some people. When someone you “know well” is accused of sexual abuse and

marina weiss ☀️

marinaweiss

The Stringer campaign has tried all the old attack moves: adding details not included in Ms. Kim's brief account in an attempt to discredit her, trotting out his spouse who

Elizabeth Bear

matociquala

I'm just going to talk a little about DARVO and projection, two tactics abusers and gaslighters use to obscure their toxic behavior. (Thread)DARVO stands for "deny, attack, and reverse victim

Helen🏳️‍⚧️💙

mimmymum

This article is a perfect example of how the obsessive anti-trans cult recruit unsuspecting women into their ideology under the guise of “feminism” and a narrative of “woman as victim”.It’s

Kate Manne

kate_manne

Final, final thought: if I could, I would write a piece tomorrow about understanding Pence through the DARVO model of abuse--particularly the "reverse victim and offender" element. As in, when

Annalee

LeeFlower

A thing I am thinking about today is how when abusers get therapy that isn't specifically centered around the fact that they are abusive and need to change their behavior

Dr. Nicole Bedera

NBedera

The Depp Discourse has been a good reminder that most people don't know anything about how to evaluate evidence in a gender-based violence trial. So here's a thread about how

Melissa “Claudio” Lewis

Claudio_Report

I wasn’t clear enough about this: JeVa was one of those people who did kind things, but also did BAD things. People are complex. That doesn’t mean they are welcome

✨thistle✨

litlbeansprout

NAH FUCK THIS that @ Abenak*Heritage is Actually @Willowvane new acc. He has 5 accs left and is giving ppl advice on who to block, using DARVO to accuse n8vs

stars in my pocket

atypewritersing

something i'm thinking through this morninghttps://twitter.com/LeeFlower/status/1329832417260154882 T.W:IPV when my stalker broke into my house in March, I talked to quite a few DV counsellors who worked specifically with the LGBTQ

Cláudia

abfugio

There are some women's cliques around here who aren't that different from trans activists, they're full on identity & pseudo theories which they use to shut down those who are

Joolz Denby

JoolzDenby

People need to try and fully understand the abusers targeting @jk_rowling do not actually think she's any of the ridiculous things they say. Nope. They are typical abusers throwing every

jules rylan ✡︎

radiantbutch

gaslighting is not just telling a lie. it’s intentionally altering the details regarding an incident or pattern of abuse in order to warp the victim’s sense of reality. stop misusing

Hoydenne

iridienne

BTW, if you are going to signal-boost the Mixon hitpiece against @benjanun_s, which is a complete tissue of lies (I WAS THERE), you might as well unfollow me now, because

Narcissistic Abuse Rehab

narcabuserehab

THREAD/Flying Monkeys are enablers who act on behalf of narcissistsThey're usually friends + relatives who serve as Surrogates Spies Emissaries Fixers + Dronesin the narcissist’s network #NarcissisticAbuse #Scapegoating https://bit.l