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about once a week I think of that redditor who posted to r/legaladvice that he was finding unsettling post-it notes inside his place (presumably from his landlord) and another redditor

the mainstream metoo movement is not at all equipped to encounter or parse those pockets of society (queer scenes, activist scenes) that are like the two spidermen pointing at each

I think a lot about the idea that allies need to be grounded. like, spiritually steady and chill instead of pursuing — consciously or otherwise — approval, attention, authority, absolution,

'to you I'm a toy / but I could be the boy / you adore / if you'd just let me know / although you're untrue / I'm attracted to

I'm increasingly unsure to what degree whiteness can actually interface with the world outside it. I feel like part of its pathology is that it's a maze of mirrors; the

'animal lovers' who have not a surplus of compassion that overflows onto non-humans but a shortfall of compassion that turns humans away we should all care about animals, but if

one problem with imposter syndrome discourse is that some people are actually imposters who are correctly sensing that they're out of their league, and we're talking them out of their

it's possible to uncouple 'I'm not actually that good at this' from 'therefore I should feel like shit' lots of people pointing out that most actual imposters will never perceives

tfw your therapist loosens a knot in 2 minutes that you've been pinching and prying at for 10 years relatedhttps://twitter.com/pangmeli/status/712713089129402368?s=19 I feel like, as a rule, if you find yourself

I did a deep dive into a subreddit for instacart workers ('shoppers') and here are some takeaways, in case it's helpful to anyone else. if you're an instacart worker and

don't care about alison roman in any way but I'm just gonna say it: lots of people are trying to make it about anti-asian racism and... I think it's a

this is the most dramatic video of candle ice I've ever seen. if I didn't know it was candle ice I'd think it was cgi here's a closeup video someone