literal wank thread

there's more ways to stimulate a clit/t-dick than just rubbing it directly tbh, depending on what your vulva is like, how big it is etc

see the shape of the organ? those two sides of the opening and run behind the labia majora (the fat outer lips)?

so a lot of people have different clits, and the clitoral hood is as widely varied as foreskins are on different Penises - some people's clits are likely almost wholly hooded and then others have a way more emergent head

esp on testosterone with a t-dick you often get that

testosterone definitely changed sensations for me where it can be cool to jerk yourself off with your thumb and forefinger and grind into something rather

or you can strum it using the pubic bone behind like a guitar string, or rub BESIDE the bone where its softer/spongier

but if you find the pubic bone under skin, it'll be where your outer lips separate from the shape of the mons at the top, and then you pull? so if you put your fingers on the bone and gather up the flesh of your mons, pulling up toward your navel

and then clench/unclench

you can often feel a different sensation, especially if you're already turned on and the flesh is engorged/your clit is erect

but you can do the same by grabbing both outer lips and pulling forward and away from you

either way (or another way) you're doing the same thing - you're pulling the flesh, which is super rich in nerve endings away from where it normally rests comfortably on the bone, and because it's pulled taut, when you clench and move the muscles, there's more internal friction

i also wholeheartedly recommend holding an entire vulva like a sandwich, which sounds RIDICULOUS - this only works if you do have more prominent outer lips, but if you hold yourself from the outside, thumb and forefinger either side of your labia majora

(your OUTER LIPS, so where the flesh is the same colour/texture as the rest of your skin and you either grow pubic hair or shave/wax, not your inner lips, where the flesh is much thinner and wants to be lubricated before you grab anything)

thumb and forefinger each side, flush against your actual crotch, with the C made by the shape of your hand ABOVE or against your mons

then, you squeeze - not just generally, but squeeze so that your clit is between your thumb and forefinger

you want to be squeezing your clit from the base, so not just squeezing it by the head/tip, and you're using the outer lips as the kind of bread for the sandwich right?

but because your outer lips are all that great fatty, spongey flesh

you can squeeze and grab and manhandle your clit a lot easier, without actually grabbing it directly which is hard!! because it's small and the skin is thinner - like this, you have a great buffer but you can still manipulate it directly and squeeze the internal shaft

you can drag and pull, you can squeeze and clench your muscles, you can twist a little - what's really great is rolling the internal shaft between your thumb and forefinger through the handhold of your outer lips

you know yourself what you prefer, so you don't have to be rough

but you might find that rough works!

What you have to remember about the vulva is that you have a mix of very tender, very thin skin - it's VERY sensitive because that thinness means that bloodflow is close go the surface, but it also needs to be lubed or it can tear or bruise

but you ALSO have the rest of it, especially your mons and your outer lips, which are generally fatter and spongier, and that fat gives you a lot of protection and cushioning! it's great if you're getting railed, but you can use it for other things

because so much of the most sensitive parts of these organs are internal, they're not as obvious to stimulate, but your options aren't just to ring the doorbell and go through the door, so to speak, there's a lot you can do

even just pressing down on the lower part of your belly, can be stimulating for some people, in the same way some people get a lot of great stimulation from anal!

part of the reason i really enjoy writing erotica is writing different ways people like stimulation and how it works for different people

just bc it doesn't seem as obvious as a glance doesn't mean it's not Great

(feel free to add tips or more info or!! discuss! if you are not shy but also if you prefer to quietly lurk and like that's also a-okay)