A really good heuristic for finding men who cosplay as feminists but are in fact just hyperverbal misogynists:

See how they speak about women who are older or hold power, and thus outside sexual availability.

This is also great for spotting internalized misogyny among women.

I keep saying this but feminism is entirely too fractured by chasing individual issues as flash points. The first work of feminism has to be as basic as:

How to humanize women after 6,000 *SOLID* years of dehumanization?

Women are not seen as equal humans. That& #39;s the issue.

And please let& #39;s not fool ourselves about "he& #39;s one of the good ones." Too many women have learned to live with emotional neglect from men in their lives, and don& #39;t even expect support or help. If they get it, it comes only after years of lobbying for your own rights at home.