Five epiphanies and questions to logically tackle problem situations in business and life:
Before we get started:
These are based on my personal experience. I had these epiphanies at different points during my 20s & 30s i.e. an eternity agohttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙂" title="Leicht lächelndes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Leicht lächelndes Gesicht">

Back then I was proud of my logical thinking, so I used logic to convert them into questions to ask myself in these situations.
Situation:
When I am feeling offended

Epiphany:
Feeling offended is a “me” problem, not a “them” problem

Questions to ponder:
If their words can spark so much inner disarray & disturbance within me, is the power with me or with them?

The effect:
Acceptance→Growth
More control
Situation:
When I am worrying a lot

Epiphany:
My past worries have either not materialized or not destroyed my life like I had imagined

Question to ponder:
If it happens, will it be a bad day, bad week, bad month, bad year, or a bad life?

The effect:
Perspective
Prioritization
Situation:
When I think someone is being unfair

Epiphany:
They clearly do not think that way about themselves

Questions to ponder:
What’s the story they are telling themselves? Under what conditions might their perspective be valid?

The effect:
Super-empathy
Win-win solutions
Situation:
When making tough & important decisions

Epiphany:
Choices with long-term impact are still heavily biased by my current feelings

Question to ponder:
Which of these choices will look wisest to me 20 years from now?

The effect:
Seeking good counsel
Accelerated wisdom
Situation:
When a problem seems too hard

Epiphany:
Harder things have been achieved by people with fewer resources

Questions to ponder:
Is this problem truly as unique and difficult as I think? What might another person or team do here?

The effect:
Reframing
Creative execution
To sum it all up, it’s largely about:

Self observation + Logic + Long outlook
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