Heaven and hell are real, but they’re states of mind and a state of being

We can live in hell, or we can live in Heaven on earth, depending on our mindset and our actions

the way to 'hell':

- lying
- taking things personally that are nothing to do with you,
- making assumptions
- living a life based on other peoples expectations of you
- projecting/defending an 'image' of yourself
- following politics/news incessantly

the way to 'heaven':

- telling the truth
- living a life in accordance with what you believe
- dont assume, ask questions instead
- never take things personally (things are nothing to do with you)
- in any situation, always do your best, whatever your best may be

Regardless of the circumstances around us, we can either exist in a state of hell in our minds, living out a life that does not truly reflect how we feel inside because we have an image of ourselves (which isn’t real) that we expend untold emotional energies to defend and uphold

Or, we can exist in ‘heaven’, where our thoughts and feelings and desires align with how we choose to live our lives, the relationships we participate in reflect what we truly want in a partner and we exude love + positivity because our internal state is no longer broken.

It is a process to get out of hell, but once you have a taste of the mental tools/knowledge that enable you to see the miasma of fake problems for what they are, you can see the path forward.

It will not come overnight, but it will come.