Attracting Women (thread)

Some quick pointers that girls find attractive if you embody them

Be muscular

Self explanatory...

More muscle subcommunicates sexual characteristics that the cavewoman brain selects for.

Indicates that you can protecc in times of strife

Also shows that you are a man of discipline and commitment

Have a vision that you work towards daily

Be unapologetic in your views...

Not everyone will like you... this extends to women.

Being honest as to what you believe will attract those aligned with your tastes

Treat them without special preference just for being a girl

No one likes to be pandered to

Have boundaries that you enforce

HAVE FUN

No one wants to hang with the guy who can’t laugh at himself or takes themselves to seriously

You are a man, be masculine

She will be feminine, the polarity attracts

This comes with it the responsibility of taking on the burden of masculine tasks

Do not whine about your lot in life

A good girl will support and help you succeed, no matter what stage of life you’re at.

She just wants to see you earnestly making the best of what you have, with a smile on your face

You are INDOMITABLE

Your piece of shit car does not mean you can’t get girls...

This is a societal limitation you place on yourself

If girls judge you for the quality of your possessions then they aren’t who you want to hang around anyway

Girls receive and multiply the energy you give to them

Be the rising energy that breaks her out of her day to day monotony...

Don’t be on your phone on dates

You should expect the same from her

Goes for all social situations really

Be comfortable with Eye contact

Much energetic information can be communicated without saying anything...

Be spontaneous

One of the reasons my parents marriage fell apart was because my dad was too focused on the bills, saving money, being serious

Sucks the fun out of life when everything must be logically analysed

Have your own life

If you make a girl the entire focus of your life, dropping everything to be wjth them all the time

They will not respect your attention, or feel like they have to do anything to deserve it

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Have hobbies

This enables you to share your life with her

You can give her knowledge, teach her new things

An air of mastery within an environment is attractive

Within the relationship, don’t become the people pleaser

If you do everything to become the perfect boyfriend, while it has good intentions it results in them feeling supplicated to, killing attraction

Be vulnerable

This is a result of becoming happy with who you are

You can honestly be yourself and love without any asterisks.

Listen to what she does not what she says

Engage in your community

Networking will always benefit your social relationships

If you know the bartender at your local, or can introduce her to people that can help her out,

Must mean you’re a standup guy that she can trust

A quality diet will improve the look of your face, body and energy and mood overall.

HEALTH = OUTWARD AESTHETIC BENEFITS = ATTRACTION

Invest in this

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Become a renaissance man

Having many interests and skills will create a mystique around you

If they know everything about you, you become too familiar and familiarity kills attraction

Most of these pointers come naturally as a result of working on yourself + your life

Girls should never be the only focus of your life

“What you desire eludes you”

My first advice is to always develop yourself + the women will come