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Ada org suka bersendirian. Dia keluar dgn kawan² tapi tak lah every week. Ada yg setiap minggu, but waktu tertentu, dia akan bersendirian. Mungkin stay home, mungkin go out seorang diri. But dia tak rasa lonely
Awak mcm tu?
Ada beza antara loneliness & solitude
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Awak mcm tu?
Ada beza antara loneliness & solitude
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Loneliness is when kita rasa kesorangan secara negative. Rasa terpencil, rasa tak dipeduli, rasa mcm ada yang kurang & missing. Kita perlu sangat nak ada something or someone. That is loneliness
Itu bukan solitude. Jangan samakan solitude dengan loneliness
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Itu bukan solitude. Jangan samakan solitude dengan loneliness
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Solitude ni seorang diri juga, tapi tak rasa lonely. Orang tu tak rasa benda² negative. In fact, being in solitude ni dia akan grow, flourish, rasa lebih baik. Mungkin sebab dah too much deal/interact with people, so being in solitude helps orang tu untuk recharge
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Mungkin boleh juga kita ckp being in solitude is kita punya me time.
Being in solitude, kita boleh focus on diri sendiri, do what we want or yg perlu kita buat (go out, read a book, gi shopping, jalan sorang²). We get to be more in touch with ourselves.
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Being in solitude, kita boleh focus on diri sendiri, do what we want or yg perlu kita buat (go out, read a book, gi shopping, jalan sorang²). We get to be more in touch with ourselves.
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Being in solitude juga boleh spark up inspiration, especially bila we need to think and contemplate on stuff. Sometimes all the noise dari orang sekeliling boleh affect our cognition or mind. Mungkin tak directly. They all tak ganggu, but kita rasa terganggu
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Sebab tu bila kita nak decide on something, maybe mula² kita discuss with people. But lepas tu we need to be alone to be more clearheaded. That is also solitude
Maybe it's not the same for everyone. Ada juga yg decide on the spot. Good, it works for them
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Maybe it's not the same for everyone. Ada juga yg decide on the spot. Good, it works for them
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Dlm Islam ada juga concept solitude. But not alone just like that. It is more to being alone with God. Mcm kita bangun tgh malam solat tahajud seorang diri or solat istikharah. Prophet (ﷺ) pun ada embrace solitude. Boleh rujuk sirah or pakar.
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Sebab tu bila kita nak bersendirian, don't judge us. Maybe some people don't need solitude at all. But for many of us, sometimes we need it. It doesn't mean we are lonely
Maybe not tomorrow, not this week, not this month. But after we're done, we'll go meet people
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Maybe not tomorrow, not this week, not this month. But after we're done, we'll go meet people
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