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I hate the president but comments on people’s weight come from a place in your brain that has developed a disordering of how it is supposed to function.
As a reminder, weight has NOTHING to do with evolutionary preference for mates. Fat animals get it on happily all the time.
So the ONLY factor that makes you fatphobic is that we as a society decided at some point that day people were less than human and deserved to be ridiculed
So the ONLY factor that makes you fatphobic is that we as a society decided at some point that day people were less than human and deserved to be ridiculed
because we wanted someone to ridicule. The ONLY factor that leaves you “I’m just not attracted to far people” is a disordered pathway in your brain that you loop over and over again due to how Western society treats fat people.
You absolutely, 100% can be attracted to fat people,
You absolutely, 100% can be attracted to fat people,
you just keep telling yourself that you’re not. And that may be an indication that you, yourself, have a body image or health or eating issue you’re not going to therapy for but NEED TO.
I study psychology. I study animals. I study sexuality. And I’ve been in counseling for an
I study psychology. I study animals. I study sexuality. And I’ve been in counseling for an
eating disorder for seven years. So when I hear people say things like, “I’m just not attracted to fat people”, I hear that something is wrong in your brain and it is not functioning the way it would if it was healthy.
“Cheat day”, “Take these away from me before I eat the
“Cheat day”, “Take these away from me before I eat the
whole thing”, “I’m going to need to run after this”, or discussing calories are all indications your brain is not working in a healthy way and you may need to go to a counselor who specializes in eating disorders BEFORE this gets too out of control and becomes an actual disorder.
You may THINK you are attracted to health, but the reality is you yourself are not thinking in a way that is healthy for you, and you’re also, usually unwittingly, reducing the humanity of others in your mind. Which is another indication you should probably get some counseling to
get to the root of WHAT about you is so powerfully controlled by these fears, so you can recognize and change harmful thinking patterns before they harm you or the ones you love any farther.
I know this thread has a high chance of becoming a mess for me because people always get OUTRAGED when I bring up this discussion but I went to eating disorder rehab and this is all researched stuff they discussed with us.
