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The first time you DM a lady, have a lengthy but light conversation.
Express your interest in her with subtle terms without intentionally declaring your mission.
When sheâs getting really hooked into the conversation, end it and run off to do something even if thereâs nothing
Express your interest in her with subtle terms without intentionally declaring your mission.
When sheâs getting really hooked into the conversation, end it and run off to do something even if thereâs nothing
Donât DM her again until after 5-6 days, if she DMs you first within this period then youâre onto something.
If she doesnât, DM her and apologize for not reaching out. Youâve been busy.
Women hate busy men but love the rare attention from said busy men.
If she doesnât, DM her and apologize for not reaching out. Youâve been busy.
Women hate busy men but love the rare attention from said busy men.
This time stay with her, donât run off. Make up for the last time, allow her do most of the talking and how do you accomplish that? Ask her questions about herself, her dreams, her career.
Keep romance out of it for now. Let her see you as the friend you are pretending to be
Keep romance out of it for now. Let her see you as the friend you are pretending to be
Itâs now ok to ask for her number, but donât ask as if youâre asking. Ask as if youâre demanding. âGive me your number, pleaseâ is more masculine than âCan I have your number?â
Sheâll give. If she asks for yours, fine. If she doesnât, sheâs expecting your call so she can save it
Sheâll give. If she asks for yours, fine. If she doesnât, sheâs expecting your call so she can save it
Donât call until after 3 days. Donât DM too.
If she becomes too familiar with you, you become less interesting. Women love mystery. Let curiosity fill her heart. Sheâs probably talking to other guys so be different.
If she becomes too familiar with you, you become less interesting. Women love mystery. Let curiosity fill her heart. Sheâs probably talking to other guys so be different.
When you call, keep it brief. Iâm sure sheâs surprised to hear from you. So before the excitement dies down, tell her youâre checking up on her and will call her much later.
Keep this call less than a minute.
Donât call for another 3 days
Keep this call less than a minute.
Donât call for another 3 days
When you do, ask her out for lunch. If sheâs interested, pick a day one week ahead. Most gents make mistakes and pick 2 days or 3 days away.
One week is fine. Let her see that you are an organized person and you donât love to rush.
One week is fine. Let her see that you are an organized person and you donât love to rush.
As for the venue of the date, give her 3 options and ask her to pick one so she feels like sheâs in charge.
Men should always make women feel like theyâre in control.
Men should always make women feel like theyâre in control.
While waiting for the date, reduce verbal communication to a minimum before you will say something that you will regret and make her call it off or before she will piss you off.
Simple greetings are recommended.
Simple greetings are recommended.
Make sure you arrive 10 minutes earlier to the venue and survey it before informing her that youâre there.
Check for security challenges, exes and current girlfriends or their friends.
You donât want to ruin your first date
Check for security challenges, exes and current girlfriends or their friends.
You donât want to ruin your first date
It is highly recommended to sit in your car while waiting for your date to arrive so you can walk into the place together.
Compliment her dressing and tell her sheâs beautiful.
Donât press your phone. Keep it face down on the table. Focus on her.
Compliment her dressing and tell her sheâs beautiful.
Donât press your phone. Keep it face down on the table. Focus on her.
Offer to drop her off at her junction, not at her place. Donât give up any vibes of being with her privately yet even if you literally canât wait.
Patience is a virtue
Patience is a virtue
Donât call her for another 3 days. Only text to check up on her.
The next time you call, ask her what sheâs doing on Friday evening, that youâd love to cook dinner for her.
If sheâs busy, postpone, if sheâs not, buy a cook book
The next time you call, ask her what sheâs doing on Friday evening, that youâd love to cook dinner for her.
If sheâs busy, postpone, if sheâs not, buy a cook book
When she arrives, compliment her dressing, always tell her sheâs beautiful. Get her light refreshment before you serve her dinner.
Sit far from her and play a classic Hollywood film. Something she hasnât seen.
Sit far from her and play a classic Hollywood film. Something she hasnât seen.
When you remove the plates back to the kitchen you can come back and sit beside her, so itâs unintentional.
If you throw your hand over her shoulder and she leans in, then weâve made progress
If you throw your hand over her shoulder and she leans in, then weâve made progress
Anything you want to do from this point, you should ASK first.
âCan we cuddle?â
âCan I kiss you?â
âCan I unbutton your dress?â
âCan I suck breast?â
âCan we go inside the bedroom?â
âCan I remove your pant?â
âShould I get a condom?â
âShould I cum inside you?â
âCan we cuddle?â
âCan I kiss you?â
âCan I unbutton your dress?â
âCan I suck breast?â
âCan we go inside the bedroom?â
âCan I remove your pant?â
âShould I get a condom?â
âShould I cum inside you?â
After the sex, make sure you help her get dressed up the same way you undressed her. A gentleman must remain a gentleman after orgasm.
This time drop her off at her door, kiss her goodnight.
Call her when you get home then you can now delete her number and move on. Thanks
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This time drop her off at her door, kiss her goodnight.
Call her when you get home then you can now delete her number and move on. Thanks
