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Let’s talk about experiencing gaslighting when you regularly experience brain fog or cognitive deficits as part of your disability. I think this makes us particularly susceptible to gaslighting and that

It’s Mother’s Day and I don’t talk to my mom. I’m okay with that. When I tell people why people generally gasp in horror. It’s okay if you don’t talk

What I love about disability Twitter is that so much of it is people being like “This is my Crip body and how it works” and people responding and sharing

Please note: I have updated my e-mail sign off. I will henceforth be signing every correspondence:Fuck this year,A. H. Reaume Dear Sir,I would like to cancel my subscription to your

I don’t know who needs to hear this but men not doing the work to try to process their trauma and instead letting it repeatedly harm women who are close

Okay but if you have been in a controlling relationship where what you wanted and felt were not important and you lost yourself and you have vowed never to do

A disabled friend was struggling to come up with good things about themselves last night and so I wrote them a very long message that listed a bunch of things

I am reading a book about illness narratives and the last five things I’ve written as marginalia are just ‘Eww.’ Not at anything gross for bodily reasons but because of

My friend just had someone tell her that her disability defines her too much. Listen abled bodies people - we ARE our disabilities. I cannot separate my body from ‘me.’

So, I had a phone date last night and he led with teasing me about what I ate for dinner - a quick meal that I make when I’m fatigued

Growing up, I mostly received love and praise from my parents when I accomplished things. And so I got very good at doing that. I still struggle at understanding my

Okay so... I’ve been doing relatively okay mental health wise in all this and I finally realized why. One thing that’s happened since the pandemic is that suddenly all the