#Pain

ThreadOn the 21-04-2008,12 yrs ago, I received the devastating news that I had Cancer. I found a lump on the 20th, went to the doctor on the 21st, was sent
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A small rant, please forgive me... Mum died on Valentines day this year. It was awful. Then the coroner held on to her body for nearly 4 weeks before they
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The troll makes a point worth discussing. This pandemic is not a personal loss. It's a national one. We've lost jobs, loved ones, living spaces, graduations, celebrations, rituals, relationships, ways
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One thing that I wish I would have known about healing, years ago - is that jumping to be super “productive” & busy working on goals right after a heartbreak
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Since everyone is talking about #LoveJihaad here is my take.Being a gynaecologist, I see a lot of females from all strata of society and hear there stories. Few years back,
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A knight of the realm should never be leader of the labour party. It's that simple. Don't care where he grew up or what he got it for. You don't
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one of the most delightful and equally most abysmal parts of being neuroatypical is that first, oh...2 weeks to 6 months or longer of fixating hardcore on a new acquaintance
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hey you! yes, you :) open this thread for some loving reminders
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This morning I am thinking about #Recovery What are the stages we will need to go through? How long will it takes us to cover as individuals, communities, a country?#Recovery
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ive got time today so let’s talk about why decolonisation is not the same as diversity (directly lifted from my gender agenda workshop!) i use the example of OITNB because
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I wanna add more to this. Unfortunately all I can add to this is word of mouth as this is the kind of man who’ll delete any evidence of wrongdoing.
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Today, I’ll be sharing with you ( 3 ways to get revenge on your ex ) Ex’s have to be the worst (exgirlfriends are the overall worst but that’s a
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We are Not Good at Listening: A Thread on Trauma and Outraged Commentary. CW: This is about the triggers, the causes, and the continuation of trauma in personal life and
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Someone isn't SPECIAL for having endured traumas or experiences that manifested in the form of patterns of control & harm. That's BASICALLY MOST IF NOT ALL ABUSERS, Y'ALL. If you're
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"I didnt know about Hana's race. Therefore her marginalized identity didn't affect her at all."Uh, she reveals her mixed roots in the first episode and mentions it occasionally. The bullies
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A few non-ED phyisican friends are being re-deployed to take care of patients in ED. They want to help but are understandably apprehensive. They have questions. Here’s my 10 point
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