A thread about over thinkers and understanding them:
Overthinkers are unique and special people for one and shouldn’t be ridiculed for thinking differently than you or others.
They tend to have a HUGE heart and that’s partially their downfall.
They care too much so it seems like the other person doesn’t care and it scares the fuck out of us.
The “if you don’t give me a solid reassuring answer, then I’ll come up with my own...is true. 99% of the time we are scared and don’t think logical/lash out because we think the worst
If you’re dating an overthinker, it will have difficult times and you may question why you’re there but instead try giving their way of thinking a try and you may see different results
Overthinkers are usually happy outgoing people ON THE OUTSIDE but deep down are broken because of events in their past that have fucked yo their mental state
They will love you with everything they have all the time, all they need is reassurance you’re just as down for them as they are for you
People who view it as are problem, ARE the problem...it’s a mental disease stemming from traumatic events (accidents, death, heartbreak)
It can’t be cured but it can be controlled with someone with the right mentality
Always remember YOU ARE NOT ALONE. There are others like you and there are people willing to help even if you feel you can’t be helped. Dm me if anyone ever needs to talk because I admittedly am an overthinker myself.
Retweet the start of the thread...you never know who may need it...
https://zayahwrights.wordpress.com/2018/05/05/overthinking/ Someone dm’d me this and used my thread in their blog y’all check it out