A thread about #cheating ...

It saddens me when I sit with people that have been cheated on and they're reciting all the reasons that they were cheated on

"I was pregnant and fat and he says it was repulsive"

"She said that I wasn't satisfying her in bed"

Etc, etc, etc ...
These excuses transfer the guilt to the person that has been cheated on. The cheater feels justified.

We are not animals. We have FREE WILL. If you end up in a #cheating entangled mess exchanging bodily fluids with someone, it is by choice
I have told you this before.

Marinus has told me that the reason he won't cheat on me is because he fears God. He decided years ago that he would not cheat on his wife. This is not a decision he'll be making in a hotel room at 03h37 #cheating
He went on to say that I wasn't under pressure to look or act in a certain way

"I cheated on you because you're overweight" is something I'm never going to hear.

People get told such by the way. Next thing you're stuck in gym trying to change for an errant adult #cheating
It is heartbreaking to be honest. I deal with such issues daily - at work and in #HeartBreakHotel DMs

A tattered self-esteem takes forever to restore. Giving people flimsy excuses for #cheating on them is cowardly in my opinion

You cheated because it was YOUR choice to do so
Aside: please make sure ONE trusted person knows if you're going to be #cheating out of town. There has to be someone that can help the forensic pathologists piece the puzzle together when we find your corpse in a hotel room in Orania ... when you live in Bethal
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