one last thing on withers/nicholas: listen to "use me." then check "you." "use me" feels less playful and you'll see the resentment.

withers bragged about how he got him one of them movie stars when he met her. "use me" and "you" display his related insecurities.

and now where art and artist become tricky to separate: the post-nicholas "justments" is one of the best breakup albums ever made.