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When you are rejected, quit sticking around. Staying teaches the other person that to keep you is to hurt you and tell you you're not loved.
You're not stuck until you decide to be.
Ask once and believe that answer. Do not ask again.
In any relationship there is at least one irreconcilable issue. The entire duration of the relationship will be spent denying this deal breaker, focusing on the other parts of the relationship, until more issues compound it or both parties accept it as never to be resolved.
Dreams, plans, and goals are good. But they are meaningless if you can't sustain a relationship today and make it last until that coveted future. A relationship can't be built on future plans. There has to be something to chew on today or you'll never reach that tomorrow.
You will regret the things you didn't do out of fear of failure much more than the things you did do and failed.
You learn this quickly as a child, in school, and at work: If you don't get the help you ask for, you will do it yourself. It's the same in relationships. When your partner says, "I need you," "Stay," or "Let's go away" and you let them down, they will take care of themselves.
Your choice of partner is important because their values ultimately become yours. When you love someone you want to love them in the way they feel, so if they feel love in material things, or in jealousy, or in turmoil, you will also seek and value those things to please them.
Love is really all it's rumored to be.
Sex is pretty great if you're into it, do it safely, and care enough to respect each other. But it's not for everyone, and that's okay.
