Life was REALLY tough.

I had no clue what to do with it.

Then someone asked me 11 questions and CHANGED my life for good.

Here are those questions:
Q: Are you thinking long-term?

When you "think", think in decades

When you "do", do in monthly increments.

1-year resolutions are thing of the past

Start making 10-year resolutions
Q: Do you know HOW to be in a conflict?

It's not WHAT you say that matters.

It's HOW you say it that matters.

Conflict sparks constructive discussions.

No conflict, no progress.
Q: Does everyone trust you?

Focus on trust, not success.

Trust is precious.

You can build anything with trust.
Q: Do you react or respond?

Reaction is emotional: When you react you give away your power.

Response is rational: When you respond to preserve your power.

My worst mistakes were made in an emotional state.

Be rational (particularly on the internet)
Q: Are you to the point?

Do you like to talk in circles?

Don't!

Everyone is busy.

Just say what you want

It's a shame to not be straight to the point.
Q: Are you optimistic?

Paulo Coelho said:

"When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it"

Never take this quote lightly.

It works!!!
Q: Why do you take things so personally?

- When you’re 20 you care what everyone thinks

- When you’re 40 you stop caring what everyone thinks

- When you’re 60 you realize no one was thinking about you in the first place.
Q: Do you have a vision?

Is it:

1. Success
2. Money
3. Travel
4. Power

The world rewards people who are driven by their vision.
Q: Do you have inner peace?

When you live in the past, you're nostalgic

When you live in the future, you're anxious

When you live in the present, you're peaceful

Peaceful mind === Powerful mind
Q: What would you do if you had all the money in the world?

I'd buy myself more time by hiring the right people.
Q: What are you doing to make this world a better place?

I once had no answer to this question.

Now I do.

I am trying to create a world where everyone is comfortable with UNCERTAINTY.

I want everyone to be fearless and AGILE.
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