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Silent treatment is a very effective form of punishment for people who have a reputation for unaccountability and a lifestyle of victimhood.
If a person has a habit of hurting you, and considers "I'm sorry" a silver bullet they can always employ to get their way with you...
If a person has a habit of hurting you, and considers "I'm sorry" a silver bullet they can always employ to get their way with you...
No matter how hurtful their actions may be, it is not only recommended you ignore them, you should ghost them too.
They're emotional vampires who will suck up your energy and drain you so protect your mental health and f#ck up their own. It is the least they deserve.
They're emotional vampires who will suck up your energy and drain you so protect your mental health and f#ck up their own. It is the least they deserve.
The thing with natural-born manipulators is that they will always device shaming tactics to get you to do their bidding.
If you verbally express your displeasure each time they hurt you, they will call you a nag. If you don't, they'll claim you're 'emotionally unavailable.'
If you verbally express your displeasure each time they hurt you, they will call you a nag. If you don't, they'll claim you're 'emotionally unavailable.'
Either ways, they will find a name to call you.
I was with someone's babe one time and baba was calling her repeatedly yet she ignored.
After we were done, she picked her phone, apparently saw his messages and murmured "This one will just be nagging..."
I was with someone's babe one time and baba was calling her repeatedly yet she ignored.
After we were done, she picked her phone, apparently saw his messages and murmured "This one will just be nagging..."
So obviously, it is better to be described as 'emotionally unavailable' than be considered a 'nag'
The former will push her away from you, and the latter will get you disrespected and ultimately, push her away when she finds better options.
The former will push her away from you, and the latter will get you disrespected and ultimately, push her away when she finds better options.
Double jeorpardy in the second scenario so that's the one you should avoid.
I strongly believe people who invalidate your feelings by describing the pain they inflict on you as "small argument" should be paid in their own coin.
Ignore, checkout emotionally, then ghost.
I strongly believe people who invalidate your feelings by describing the pain they inflict on you as "small argument" should be paid in their own coin.
Ignore, checkout emotionally, then ghost.
Let us see how they handle "small emotional pain"
It is better to be single than be with sadistic self-serving habitual manipulators who take advantage of "I'm sorry" to repeatedly offend you and get angry that you refuse to accept their meaningless apology.
Choose your peace.
It is better to be single than be with sadistic self-serving habitual manipulators who take advantage of "I'm sorry" to repeatedly offend you and get angry that you refuse to accept their meaningless apology.
Choose your peace.
