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How to flirt with women without being creepy:
Start with a fun attitude
Think about most people you interact with.
They have boring conversations.
That means you stand out.
All you need to do is make the interaction fun.
How?
Think about most people you interact with.
They have boring conversations.
That means you stand out.
All you need to do is make the interaction fun.
How?
Be over the top when teasing
Compliments alone get boring.
Non-stop teasing gets annoying.
What’s the solution?
Compliments alone get boring.
Non-stop teasing gets annoying.
What’s the solution?
Bring both together and go all-in when you do tease.
2 easy strategies you can use:
2 easy strategies you can use:
i) Ask absurd rhetorical questions.
Go for it.
Ask something so insane she won’t be able to help but laugh.
It’ll make it clear you’re being playful, and you won’t risk sounding like a jerk.
Go for it.
Ask something so insane she won’t be able to help but laugh.
It’ll make it clear you’re being playful, and you won’t risk sounding like a jerk.
ii) Call out clichés
Did she name a common habit as something making her unique?
Call her out on it.
She’ll start trying to explain why she really is different.
She’ll be the one trying to get you to like her.
Did she name a common habit as something making her unique?
Call her out on it.
She’ll start trying to explain why she really is different.
She’ll be the one trying to get you to like her.
Always be playful
Most people only exchange information in conversations—even when flirting.
But flirting actually has another goal: to create emotions.
That’s where being playful comes in.
Most people only exchange information in conversations—even when flirting.
But flirting actually has another goal: to create emotions.
That’s where being playful comes in.
Focus on creating a fun conversation.
Show that you’re more interesting than other people.
By joking around, you’ll not just make her laugh:
You’ll control the entire tone of the interaction.
Show that you’re more interesting than other people.
By joking around, you’ll not just make her laugh:
You’ll control the entire tone of the interaction.
Make it sexual.
You’ve been following along so far.
You created a playful environment.
Now you can take it up a notch: get comfortable making inappropriate comments.
Here are 3 ways to do it:
You’ve been following along so far.
You created a playful environment.
Now you can take it up a notch: get comfortable making inappropriate comments.
Here are 3 ways to do it:
i) Make a sexual or suggestive joke that’s not about her.
This is how you test the waters.
If she doesn’t go along, no problem.
If she does... it’ll make it much easier to build sexual chemistry.
But more important than what you say is how you say it...
This is how you test the waters.
If she doesn’t go along, no problem.
If she does... it’ll make it much easier to build sexual chemistry.
But more important than what you say is how you say it...
Keep a casual tone when bringing up sex.
Talk about it like you would any other topic.
Did she go along with it?
You can now move from regular topics to sexual matters.
Talk about it like you would any other topic.
Did she go along with it?
You can now move from regular topics to sexual matters.
ii) Misinterpret what she says
If you interpret what she said as sexual, you give her two options:
• Take the conversation move into sexual topics
• Laugh and move on without creating awkwardness
And it creates plausible deniability: she brought it up, not you.
If you interpret what she said as sexual, you give her two options:
• Take the conversation move into sexual topics
• Laugh and move on without creating awkwardness
And it creates plausible deniability: she brought it up, not you.
iii) Use innuendo
You say something that’s perfectly innocent... but it sounds like it isn’t.
Once again, you use humor, make her laugh, and have plausible deniability.
Don’t push it, though.
Let the suggestion land and move on from it.
You say something that’s perfectly innocent... but it sounds like it isn’t.
Once again, you use humor, make her laugh, and have plausible deniability.
Don’t push it, though.
Let the suggestion land and move on from it.
Get comfortable flirting
Flirting is about having an outgoing, playful mindset.
And the more you do it, the more natural it feels.
So flirt all women.
What’s the result of that?
Flirting is about having an outgoing, playful mindset.
And the more you do it, the more natural it feels.
So flirt all women.
What’s the result of that?
You’ll come off as natural, not as a creep or try-hard.
Just match the same energy you bring to every interaction.
She’ll see everyone around you having fun and laughing and be more attracted to you.
Just match the same energy you bring to every interaction.
She’ll see everyone around you having fun and laughing and be more attracted to you.
Be ok with rejection
Sometimes all your efforts will fail.
She’ll ignore you. She’ll tell you to go away.
You need to be ok with that.
How do you learn it?
Sometimes all your efforts will fail.
She’ll ignore you. She’ll tell you to go away.
You need to be ok with that.
How do you learn it?
Put in the reps.
You need to expand your comfort zone:
• Take more shots
• Talk to more people
• Approach more women
The more you do it, the easier it’ll be to accept rejection and move on.
You need to expand your comfort zone:
• Take more shots
• Talk to more people
• Approach more women
The more you do it, the easier it’ll be to accept rejection and move on.
7 steps that will level up your flirting game:
1. Start with a fun attitude
2. Be over the top when teasing
3. Always be playful
4. Make it sexual
5. Flirt with the world
6. Be ok with rejection
7. Put in the reps
1. Start with a fun attitude
2. Be over the top when teasing
3. Always be playful
4. Make it sexual
5. Flirt with the world
6. Be ok with rejection
7. Put in the reps
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