FRIENDZONING WOMEN

An unconventional approach to dating I perfected that gets you access to more high quality women than you could imagine

I show will show you what it is and how to execute it 🧵
Most dating advice revolves around the same premise:

Meet women, attract them, date them.

There are different ways you meet these women (online, friends, cold approach, activities) but the idea is the same.

If she's attractive, you pursue. If she's not, you pass.
One of the reasons guys struggle with dating is because

a) most women they meet aren't necessarily for them
b) of the ones that are most don't go anywhere either due to meh connection or excess social barriers

This means most efforts don't yield any results, leading to scarcity
There is nothing wrong with taking this approach. But consider something for a moment:

Who has access to women? And what works massively in your favor when it comes to attracting women?

The answer is the same:

OTHER WOMEN
Many of the women you interact with you may feel nothing for, in spite of them being attractive

Other women may be cool but you aren't interested in them physically

Both of these women are poor romantic targets.

But they are EXCELLENT connectors to other women.
So when you go out to meet women... keep in mind that you aren't necessarily trying to date the women you meet. You are trying to *find out the truth between the two of you*

Obviously if sparks fly, go for it

But middling prospects? Get their # / social media *as friends*
I call this "planting trees". These women get pulled into your broader social circle - you invite them to nights out, parties. Always tell them to bring friends

Some of course will be uninterested

But many women are happy to hang with a cool / unneedy guy who hosts fun events
Through these "female friends" you will meet anywhere from 2-3x as many women

These women are easier to attract, because you have high social proof. Fish in a barrel

And even better: any of these leads ending awkwardly / not working out have effectively zero social consequences
But there are even more unexpected benefits.

These "female friends" are always surprised when you friendzone them. Pretty women aren't used to charming guys not trying to sleep with them

This can make many of them find you MORE attractive after the fact.

Which means...
Down the line, let's say after a relationship doesn't work out... or they're feeling lonely...

You fit the bill for attractive, trustworthy, and uncomplicated

Which means many of these "friends" will find themselves interested in a casual, discreet fling

Doesn't get any easier
Nevertheless there are 2 downsides to this "friendzoning" concept

a) It doesn't yield overnight results. It takes time to build a network, you need to be patient

b) social media is required to do it right, as it makes it much easier to maintain connection with these women
Otherwise... you just have the high quality problem of having multiple women interested in you at the same place

And of having many of these women "disappear" once you decide to get in a relationship (how shocking)

If you want more detailed info on friendzoning?
#1 - Get on my list. I send out new emails 3x a week on these topics (only on the list). Plus you get my book for free for joining: http://www.patstedman.com/optin 
#3 - Work with me. I can show you exactly when and how to friendzone and guide you as you build your social circle of women in real time: http://www.patstedman.com/application 
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