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FRIENDZONING WOMEN
An unconventional approach to dating I perfected that gets you access to more high quality women than you could imagine
I show will show you what it is and how to execute it
An unconventional approach to dating I perfected that gets you access to more high quality women than you could imagine
I show will show you what it is and how to execute it
Most dating advice revolves around the same premise:
Meet women, attract them, date them.
There are different ways you meet these women (online, friends, cold approach, activities) but the idea is the same.
If she's attractive, you pursue. If she's not, you pass.
Meet women, attract them, date them.
There are different ways you meet these women (online, friends, cold approach, activities) but the idea is the same.
If she's attractive, you pursue. If she's not, you pass.
One of the reasons guys struggle with dating is because
a) most women they meet aren't necessarily for them
b) of the ones that are most don't go anywhere either due to meh connection or excess social barriers
This means most efforts don't yield any results, leading to scarcity
a) most women they meet aren't necessarily for them
b) of the ones that are most don't go anywhere either due to meh connection or excess social barriers
This means most efforts don't yield any results, leading to scarcity
There is nothing wrong with taking this approach. But consider something for a moment:
Who has access to women? And what works massively in your favor when it comes to attracting women?
The answer is the same:
OTHER WOMEN
Who has access to women? And what works massively in your favor when it comes to attracting women?
The answer is the same:
OTHER WOMEN
Many of the women you interact with you may feel nothing for, in spite of them being attractive
Other women may be cool but you aren't interested in them physically
Both of these women are poor romantic targets.
But they are EXCELLENT connectors to other women.
Other women may be cool but you aren't interested in them physically
Both of these women are poor romantic targets.
But they are EXCELLENT connectors to other women.
So when you go out to meet women... keep in mind that you aren't necessarily trying to date the women you meet. You are trying to *find out the truth between the two of you*
Obviously if sparks fly, go for it
But middling prospects? Get their # / social media *as friends*
Obviously if sparks fly, go for it
But middling prospects? Get their # / social media *as friends*
I call this "planting trees". These women get pulled into your broader social circle - you invite them to nights out, parties. Always tell them to bring friends
Some of course will be uninterested
But many women are happy to hang with a cool / unneedy guy who hosts fun events
Some of course will be uninterested
But many women are happy to hang with a cool / unneedy guy who hosts fun events
Through these "female friends" you will meet anywhere from 2-3x as many women
These women are easier to attract, because you have high social proof. Fish in a barrel
And even better: any of these leads ending awkwardly / not working out have effectively zero social consequences
These women are easier to attract, because you have high social proof. Fish in a barrel
And even better: any of these leads ending awkwardly / not working out have effectively zero social consequences
But there are even more unexpected benefits.
These "female friends" are always surprised when you friendzone them. Pretty women aren't used to charming guys not trying to sleep with them
This can make many of them find you MORE attractive after the fact.
Which means...
These "female friends" are always surprised when you friendzone them. Pretty women aren't used to charming guys not trying to sleep with them
This can make many of them find you MORE attractive after the fact.
Which means...
Down the line, let's say after a relationship doesn't work out... or they're feeling lonely...
You fit the bill for attractive, trustworthy, and uncomplicated
Which means many of these "friends" will find themselves interested in a casual, discreet fling
Doesn't get any easier
You fit the bill for attractive, trustworthy, and uncomplicated
Which means many of these "friends" will find themselves interested in a casual, discreet fling
Doesn't get any easier
Nevertheless there are 2 downsides to this "friendzoning" concept
a) It doesn't yield overnight results. It takes time to build a network, you need to be patient
b) social media is required to do it right, as it makes it much easier to maintain connection with these women
a) It doesn't yield overnight results. It takes time to build a network, you need to be patient
b) social media is required to do it right, as it makes it much easier to maintain connection with these women
Otherwise... you just have the high quality problem of having multiple women interested in you at the same place
And of having many of these women "disappear" once you decide to get in a relationship (how shocking)
If you want more detailed info on friendzoning?
And of having many of these women "disappear" once you decide to get in a relationship (how shocking)
If you want more detailed info on friendzoning?
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