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How to make a name for yourself in your city
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1. Look the part
Teeth, hair, clothing, smell, posture everything matters.
Key here: Must be authentic to you. If you are interested in going into commercial real estate, dress like it. If you own a fitness company, dress like it.
*Nuance - occasion matters.
Teeth, hair, clothing, smell, posture everything matters.
Key here: Must be authentic to you. If you are interested in going into commercial real estate, dress like it. If you own a fitness company, dress like it.
*Nuance - occasion matters.
If going to a networking event, never under dress, ESPECIALLY if you’re a younger dude (21-32).
If u have $ then you can be more understated. (Ex: Black T, denim or clean joggers, 50k on wrist minimum)
However, most looking to make a name, aren’t there yet financially.
If u have $ then you can be more understated. (Ex: Black T, denim or clean joggers, 50k on wrist minimum)
However, most looking to make a name, aren’t there yet financially.
Totally okay, but you MUST elevate your physical image to establish credibility.
2. Frequent Same Places
Pick a coffee shop, a gym, and a steakhouse.
Go to all 3, MINIMUM 3x per week.
Why? THE SAME people need to see your face very frequently.
Smile big, shake hands, BELIEVE you are an important person.
If u believe it, They will too.
Pick a coffee shop, a gym, and a steakhouse.
Go to all 3, MINIMUM 3x per week.
Why? THE SAME people need to see your face very frequently.
Smile big, shake hands, BELIEVE you are an important person.
If u believe it, They will too.
3. Always Valet
Never waste your time parking your own shit.
Toss the keys, and get inside and start meeting people.
You’re important, Act like it. People with things to do, don’t waste time on inconsequential activities.
KEY: Get the valet attendant’s name. Shake his hand.
Never waste your time parking your own shit.
Toss the keys, and get inside and start meeting people.
You’re important, Act like it. People with things to do, don’t waste time on inconsequential activities.
KEY: Get the valet attendant’s name. Shake his hand.
4. Generosity
Take the above example of the importance of Valet.
Tip him, handsomely.
I promise you 1 thing - if you give him 3, 100 dollar bills the first 3 times he parks your car,
He will treat you like the important person you are.
Take the above example of the importance of Valet.
Tip him, handsomely.
I promise you 1 thing - if you give him 3, 100 dollar bills the first 3 times he parks your car,
He will treat you like the important person you are.
At your steakhouse,
You too the wait staff and you learn ALL of their names, where they’re from, their shoe size.
You pick one employee there to become close with.
You now will have their personal cell # that you will reach out for “off schedule” reservations.
As for weekly,
You too the wait staff and you learn ALL of their names, where they’re from, their shoe size.
You pick one employee there to become close with.
You now will have their personal cell # that you will reach out for “off schedule” reservations.
As for weekly,
You will go at the same time on the same days - so they will know you and your table will always be spoken for.
After your continued support of the establishment,
You WILL befriend the owner. You will regularly visit with him before suggesting anything about expanding network.
After your continued support of the establishment,
You WILL befriend the owner. You will regularly visit with him before suggesting anything about expanding network.
Once relationship grows, you will never pay for a meal there again.
At your coffee shop,
Pay for everyone’s coffee in there at once. It’s a hundred bucks. Trust me it’s worth it.
Why is generosity so important?
Every time you go to your established places, whether you’re with your chick, or with a business interest,
Pay for everyone’s coffee in there at once. It’s a hundred bucks. Trust me it’s worth it.
Why is generosity so important?
Every time you go to your established places, whether you’re with your chick, or with a business interest,
The people around you will show you unwavering
Love, respect, and REVERENCE for your presence.
This alone will land you more status and business than you could have paid me for.
Over extend yourself financially, if you have to - IT WILL be worth it.
Love, respect, and REVERENCE for your presence.
This alone will land you more status and business than you could have paid me for.
Over extend yourself financially, if you have to - IT WILL be worth it.
4. Business Cards
Old school shit.
This is my name.
This is what I do.
This is how I can be an asset to you.
Old school shit.
This is my name.
This is what I do.
This is how I can be an asset to you.
5. The most arrogant, Humble freak in the room
You’re arrogant enough to BELIEVE that you deserve a seat at the table with the Big Dogs
Humble enough to show love and support to those who are at your service
You’re arrogant enough to BELIEVE that you deserve a seat at the table with the Big Dogs
Humble enough to show love and support to those who are at your service
REMEMBER
This all comes down to perception.
You are, as you are perceived.
So … BELIEVE that shit
- Nut Freak
This all comes down to perception.
You are, as you are perceived.
So … BELIEVE that shit
- Nut Freak
