It& #39;s a common wish that therapist can provide perfect/all-caring relationship that will solve all patient& #39;s problems. It& #39;s called the golden fantasy—& can be major obstacle to getting well.
Some therapists have parallel fantasy they can provide perfect/all-caring relationship.
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Some therapists have parallel fantasy they can provide perfect/all-caring relationship.
2/ Progress comes when golden fantasy is recognized/explored/understood in psychotherapy. It& #39;s a bitter pill—when it sinks in that hardship is inevitable & no one can protect us from it or undo past wrongs. relinquishing the fantasy means grief & mourning. But it is precisely
3/ this—grieving what cannot be undone & what cannot be—that allows us to invest in what *can* be. It opens door to psychological change.
Therapists who think they can be the perfect parent the patient never had are not facilitating psychological change, they& #39;re obstructing it.
Therapists who think they can be the perfect parent the patient never had are not facilitating psychological change, they& #39;re obstructing it.