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• a woman of Taqwa is upright-- she holds values, morals and healthy habits.
• she is such a woman that does not delay her salaah that it becomes qadhaa. when the salaah time sets in-- she prioritizes it over everything else.
• her heart is constantly in the dhikr of Allaah
• she is such a woman that does not delay her salaah that it becomes qadhaa. when the salaah time sets in-- she prioritizes it over everything else.
• her heart is constantly in the dhikr of Allaah
• she preserves her chastity & holds hayaa in every regard. she should not freely associate with ghair mahaarim men.
• she should not have a loose tongue that she says anything and everything which leads her to offending others or to make harsh remarks.
• she should not have a loose tongue that she says anything and everything which leads her to offending others or to make harsh remarks.
• she does not engage in gossip neither does she spread gossip or find satisfaction in gossiping-- she does not involve herself in drama.
when guests leave the house-- she should not begin discussing them. she does not gain satisfaction and gratification in discussing others.
when guests leave the house-- she should not begin discussing them. she does not gain satisfaction and gratification in discussing others.
she is confident in herself that she does not find the need to gossip about others to make her feel better about herself.
• she does not use curse words neither does she scream and yell-- she is respectful and gentle.
• she does not use curse words neither does she scream and yell-- she is respectful and gentle.
• she is not judgmental towards others-- she is accepting of all. she respects all regardless of their age, race, social standing, culture or color. she respects people& #39;s opinions, she does not have to agree with it but she still respect& #39;s people for who they are.
• always be on time-- being fashionably late isn& #39;t cliche at all.
• never go to someone& #39;s house empty handed.
• don& #39;t be awkward in public places-- act like you belong even if you don& #39;t.
• do not brag
• do not be self-centred
• be confident but always remain humble.
• never go to someone& #39;s house empty handed.
• don& #39;t be awkward in public places-- act like you belong even if you don& #39;t.
• do not brag
• do not be self-centred
• be confident but always remain humble.
• if you are a woman who applys perfume-- find your signature scent but do not use perfume when leaving the house.
• always remain with simplicity.
• always give your seat to those older than you.
• always meet people with a cheerful face and positive energy.
• always remain with simplicity.
• always give your seat to those older than you.
• always meet people with a cheerful face and positive energy.
• a woman must have confidence in herself. even on her bad days.
• she should not adopt a manner of being anti-social-- being anti social isn& #39;t something that is praiseworthy.
• she should not adopt a manner of being anti-social-- being anti social isn& #39;t something that is praiseworthy.
• a woman is confident but not narcissistic. she does not show off or brag off infront of others--a woman is bold but she is also humble
• a woman does not humble-brag (fish for compliments) never desperately ask someone if you look thin or fat or whether you are pretty.
• a woman does not humble-brag (fish for compliments) never desperately ask someone if you look thin or fat or whether you are pretty.
• its good to be proud of your accomplishments & share about it with your loved ones. but do not brag about it-- to purposely get attention-- to be prideful or to make others feel low or jealous. be humble.
• a woman does not seek recognition or praise--she seeks concealment
• a woman does not seek recognition or praise--she seeks concealment
• a woman does not one-up people. if someone tells you good news, do not switch the topic over to yourself. let people have their moment, don& #39;t ruin it. a woman shouldn& #39;t brag at all especially if she is trying to make someone feel less special in their happy moments.
this similarly applies to bad news-- do not speak about how you have it worse-- a woman should never make another person feel invalid.
• dress well, but for yourself because it makes you feel good-- do not dress to impress others or for compliments-- neither for trends.
• dress well, but for yourself because it makes you feel good-- do not dress to impress others or for compliments-- neither for trends.
• do not apologize for things that are not your fault. this will weaken you, make you insecure & less confident
• dont let people walk over you--be humble & kind but stand your ground. do not be afraid to say no. do not allow others to determine your happiness-- set boundaries
• dont let people walk over you--be humble & kind but stand your ground. do not be afraid to say no. do not allow others to determine your happiness-- set boundaries
• be friends with everyone, do not arrogantly pick & choose. all you have to do is be kind to everyone-- do not be afraid to start a conversation-- give off good energies to everyone around you. you can choose who you want in your personal life, but be-friend everyone.
• a woman should not sit around all day doing nothing or just laying in bed-- scrolling through her phone. she is productive.
• she does not use her phone on the table or when someone is talking to her.
don& #39;t use your phone in public even if you are standing and doing nothing.
• she does not use her phone on the table or when someone is talking to her.
don& #39;t use your phone in public even if you are standing and doing nothing.
• a woman never hurts another just so that she may feel powerful-- she does not harbour hatred in her heart. she uplifts other women-- her heart does not fill with jealousy towards other women-- her heart always remains pure. she does not hold attitude towards other women.
• a woman is never the loudest in the room, she carries herself well-- she is gentle and her disposition is of etiquette and respect-- she acts accordingly and holds self-control.
the manner she walks and sits is of respect and dignity-- not with pride, but rather respectfully.
the manner she walks and sits is of respect and dignity-- not with pride, but rather respectfully.
• a great quality a woman could possess is to control one& #39;s emotions, she is never overtaken with anger. when something does not go her way, she remains calm and composed.
• she is not stuck up, arrogant & always to herself, she meets people w a cheerful smile & a kind heart
• she is affectionate towards children--she is considerate of them. even if they are young she strives to win their hearts over
• she does not regard herself as a somebody
• she is affectionate towards children--she is considerate of them. even if they are young she strives to win their hearts over
• she does not regard herself as a somebody
• a woman should never show anger in public--she has self control. your problems are not other peoples business, you should stay calm all the time. you can deal w problematic people in private but never argue infront of others. never complain about your family/husband to others.
always hold your partner in high esteem, do not speak ill of him to friends for baseless reasons (unless abuse, then seek help)
• a woman should not criticize or complain about others. you can always discuss it w them in private instead of drawing attention to peoples mistakes
• a woman should not criticize or complain about others. you can always discuss it w them in private instead of drawing attention to peoples mistakes
she is an obedient daughter-- she strives to please and serve her parents. when she is a wife, she is an obedient wife-- she strives to please her husband. she does not look at it as beyond her to be of service to her in-laws-- she honors them as she would honour her own parents
• she takes care of her home well, she brings warmth, love and security to the home-- she remains content and satisfied with all that she has-- she turns her house into a home, through affection and mercy.
• she lives her life in a way that will please Allaah سبحانه وتعالى-- her role-models are Aa& #39;isha, Fatimah, Asma and the rest of the sahaabah رضي الله عنهما and not modern day influencers.
May Allaah سبحانه وتعالى may us women who are recognized in the heavens.
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May Allaah سبحانه وتعالى may us women who are recognized in the heavens.
