Here's why people are attracted to you

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Human beings are inherently selfish. We revere people because of what they know, the expertise they show, how they make us feel, and generally what we get from them.

It’s the way of the world.

If this person is in your life and isn’t bringing anything, you easily tag them a leech and oftentimes, keep them out of your inner circle

That’s why on your own, it’s your responsibility to be valuable.

People want to become your friend, do business with you, tell other people about you, fall in love with you, and generally listen to you just because of your light.

- Your light is your value.

If you look at things objectively, you’ll see how transactional the world is.

A pastor gives you the word of God, acts as a medium for God to perform miracles, shares messages that improve you spiritually and physically

And then you repay his ministry by your continous attendance and offerings.

Your mum loves you, takes care of you, and supports you in whatever you do, and you repay her with loyalty, love, attention, and comfort in her old age.

To prove this point, if your mum doesn't love you, you grow up resenting her. And even cutting her off in your adulthood. Why? Because you didn't get the desired treatment when you needed it.

The basis of relationships today is value. Everyone is after something.

- It's all an exchange

- It's all a subconscious trade by barter.

So to thrive in this world, become valuable, and you'll get whatever you want.

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