· How To Slide Into Her DMs ·

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/ t h r e a d /
Before saying what you SHOULD do, let's start with the things you shouldn't.

You will find here a lot of things guys already do, then they wonder why women leave them a seen.

Let's dig in 👇🏼
1] Compliments

When sliding into her DMs, don't start with compliments.

You will look weak and thirsty - women hate both of that.

"I had to say hi, you're so hot."

Congratulations, she just screenshotted you and laughs at your thirstiness with her friends.
2] Don't Be Creepy

Don't send her any messages you wouldn't want a stranger to send YOU.

She's a woman who just a stranger slid into her DMs - she doesn't know anything about you.

Why would she trust you?

"Heyy, do you want to meet? ;)"

Hell no.
3] Don't Complicate Things

Don't send long paragraphs because if she can't see your whole text (or at least can conclude what you wrote) she won't probably even open a text.

Why? She doesn't want to leave you a seen, but if she opens your text and it's bad... She’ll have to.
4] Don't Be Boring

"Hey, what's up?"
"Hi, how are you doing?"
Etc

She gets these every day.

You're nothing more special than those guys and you WANT to be (if you want to get a response).
5] One Text

This isn't ‘cause "you're not allowed to double text".

But ‘cause she won't be able to see your texts, just a notification "2 messages" (she won't see what they're saying).

Again, if she can't see what they're saying, she won't open them (the same reason as in #3).
These 5 are the most common things guys do when sliding into a girl's DM.

With these, you scare, bore, and creep her.

So how do you bypass that?
1] Clean Your Profile

When you text any girl, the first thing she will do is visit your profile.

Make sure you don't have any posts which will make you look bad.

Remember: she will go through everything.
2] Be Original

Every person has their own mind, character, and originality.

You need to show her you're not just like every guy she's texting with.

Come up with something your own BUT something that will make her smile, intrigued, and interested.
3] Find a Perfect Timing

If she posts a pic of food and you recognize the restaurant.

You can send her a text saying: "Good choice but X is better." (You're commenting on food)

You don't have to wait for her to post something, but it looks more natural and spontaneous.
4] Tease Her

Your text has to be something that will make her WANT to respond to you.

Example:

"Hey, what's up?" ❌
"I'm here for the start of our love story." ✅
If she feels attracted to you, she will reply.

Even if she says something like:

"Hahahah you wish 😜"

It's a good sign; she accepted your game but she wants to keep on playing. (And see what do you got)
5] Show Confidence

Texting is a GAME.

She will test you through texts and you will fail if you don't show her your confidence.

She needs to sense your confidence even in the first text.

That's why it's good to sound egoistic.

If you don't, she won't reply to you.
"I've heard your thoughts so here I am. You're welcome." ✅

"Congratulations on receiving a text from me." ✅

"Hey, it's me. Your soulmate." ✅
She will WANT to answer these texts because you sound full of yourself and she's intrigued by that.

She wants to test you and see if you are really like that or you're just faking it.

Stay confident and egoistic - that's how you bring drama and fun (the things she needs).
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