The truth about female nature is so ugly, it is often incorrectly parsed as hate when conveyed

And I have no doubt that such knowledge may indeed drive some men towards hatred

But that's not because they were fed hate, it's because they expected beauty where there was ugliness.
You see, a man doesn't truly become a man in the fullest sense, meaning, to be fully mature - until he is able to accept the ugly with the beautiful. To see women neither as strictly ugly nor beautiful, but to realise they are both - as are men, just differently so.
Men are natural sexists, not misogynists. On the contrary, they are taught women are more moral, less aggressive beings who will civilise him, warmer and kinder than he. In their nascence, they are near incapable of conceptualising female cruelty, viewing them with dewy eyes.
Men by default are naĂŻve and ill-equipped for the implicit, indirect and manipulative social games that come naturally to women. Men confuse a mother's love for female nature, when in fact the two are greatly distinct, despite both being possessed by the same vessel - women.
The woman who was sweet and kind to you growing up, who sacrificed for you and mostly showed the positive side of femininity, is likewise a woman who may have used men for money and weaponised sex to get her way.

Reconcile the two.

Women oft treat children better than men.
When a woman mistreats a child, it is often because she has surpassed her stress limits, and she finds it regrettable later on. But when a woman mistreats a man, she often feels within her right to do so, as if she is naturally only protecting herself and securing her interests.
And so the great mass of young men unguided by wise men go into the world as adults expecting women to treat them with the same warmth, compassion and sacrifice their mothers gave them, only to find something all the more selfish and deceitful. This causes a crisis of perception.
This crisis of perception is akin to the loss of faith, and it is brought about by truth. That something divine, beautiful and sweet - almost perfect in a sense, is in fact just like him, not pure, but tainted, corrupt and in many senses worse than he is. This brings great pain.
And women don't help men, because they can't owing to a lack of self-knowledge, and unaligned incentives. They benefit from a perception of purity, and so are active participants in maintaining that illusion, downplaying their cunning whilst overemphasising their vulnerability.
If something is vulnerable, surely it cannot hurt you, right? And yet the one thing that hurts men more than anything is a woman - precisely because he believed she was incapable of such a thing in the first place, and even then, in his pride, he is likely to blame himself.
You see women are warned about the dangers of men all their lives, that men will manipulate for sex, to be careful, to test him and be cautious etc. They have their defences up, even when they're naive. But who warns men about women? Nobody. Most learn the hard way - through pain
And then when these men discover the unflattering truth by paying the blood price, paying with their soul in human suffering to obtain the knowledge that was always denied them, they are just told they are bitter and picked the wrong woman. They are gaslighted then dismissed.
Pain whilst a necessary stop on the path to greatness and higher enlightenment, is also the source of all hatred. Hate is just love that found disappointment in unmet expectations that caused suffering. Hate is thus the natural reaction to the death of a cherished falsehood.
And so men who once blindly loved women, believing them all to be motherly in their benevolence, seeing the feminine as nothing but a positive thing, now see it as a solely negative thing. The source of all their anguish, the destroyer of their innocence. This makes misogynists.
It is leading men to think women are something that they are not, that they are purer than they really are, kinder than they really are, and then pulling the rug from under their feet which drives them crazy. It's why so many men are simps or misogynists with no middle.
All men who have been hurt are at some point misogynists in their life, just as women who have been hurt typically become misandrists. This however is a transient phase. It is a way of dealing with pain - to reject those who caused it and dub them evil. It's natural, but foolish.
You see, you begin as a fool who trusts and loves blindly, and then become a fool who distrusts and hates blindly. Your error both times was perceiving them as but one thing- as entirely good, or entirely bad.

You evolve when you realise they are both, and require your guidance.
This is the thing you need to understand that you are never taught - women are neither good nor evil, they are good and evil. And you are too, as a man. All people are. You can be a predator, or you can be a protector. Your fate is in your hands. You can choose your path.
The woman who is good to her child, who does anything for it, including abusing, manipulating and using men for money to feed the child protects her child, but preys on men. She is an angel to the child, and a devil to the man. She is a stable paradox, for she is both. See clear.
Women as mothers cloud our view of the feminine for a very long time. We remember the kindness of our mothers, and we see the kindness they extend to small children and we think they are beautiful creatures. But they are not this simple and pure. They bear darkness just like us.
In my time on this Earth I have observed unmarriageable women most unkind to men display great acts of kindness and warmth towards children, showing virtues like sacrifice, patience and empathy that they never extended to their husbands. Within us all lies a dark/light plurality.
Good people do bad things, bad people do good things, and most people are a blend of both. All you can do is vet people's characters to see where their values lie, how strong their discipline is, and what their intentions are. From here, you decide whether you want to risk it.
Life is essentially a set of calculated risks based on cost-benefit trade-offs.

It is your ignorance that made you love blindly and it is your resentment that makes you hate blindly.

Only once you accept good comes with evil may you love intelligently and intentionally.
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