i understand we all come from different walks of life and upbringing but i am genuinely too sensitive to be friends with people who are inconsiderate. the ones that act without thinking about how their actions may affect you especially after they claim to care so much.

i genuinely just ask for basic communication most of the time. if you show me that you’re incapable of the bare minimum, then for my mental health i have to take a step back. i’m also super confused when people’s actions do not match their words. i don’t like feeling lied to.

i appreciate when they come around & finally get to explain why they neglected me or abandoned me but i can’t do nothing with this. i hear you but i do not necessarily forgive you. i hear you but now we go our separate ways because you sincerely did not have to do me like that.

because at the end of the day, you chose that. you had a choice, we all do and you chose to be inconsiderate. you chose to ghost. you chose to abandon. i’ve been done making excuses for people. accept that they meant that shit & expected you to welcome them back with open arms.

we stay tryna justify shit bc of people’s fucked up pasts but it’s like you’re not fucking special bro. most people have a fucked up past! & we still out here adjusting, trying our best & showing up for people & ourselves.

everyone’s different but i know a lack of effort when i see it. when you’re an overly considerate and understanding person, you get fucked over easily by people who literally refuse to change their toxic behaviors.

but one day you’re gonna wake up & realize the leniency you grant them, they’d never grant you. that’s when you ask yourself what the fuck am i doing. i deserve the same love and understanding i give to others period. you should strive for that not fight for that.