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My whole life I have realised one thing:
Everybody communicates in different ways.
This could be the key to understanding your relationships better.
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Everybody communicates in different ways.
This could be the key to understanding your relationships better.
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Everybody has a different and natural communication style.
There are components like courage, compassion and commitment that come in to play.
There are components like courage, compassion and commitment that come in to play.
But we will focus on simplifying communication.
Remove the fluff and you will find that we have 4 different communication styles.
Some people process their thoughts by talking a lot
Others process thoughts by turning the words into pictures inside their mind.
Some process thoughts by thinking them through thoroughly.
Others process thoughts by getting a feel for whats occurring.
Others process thoughts by turning the words into pictures inside their mind.
Some process thoughts by thinking them through thoroughly.
Others process thoughts by getting a feel for whats occurring.
The Talkers.
Have thoughts and ideas constantly popping into their minds, there is no stopping and thinking.
It will go straight through their minds and out through their mouths.
These are the people most concerned with the 'What' in any communication.
Have thoughts and ideas constantly popping into their minds, there is no stopping and thinking.
It will go straight through their minds and out through their mouths.
These are the people most concerned with the 'What' in any communication.
The Talkers (Cont'd)
They are not interested in the why, just what you want from them in this social interaction.
They do not like to be told how to do something as if you do they deliberately won't do it.
They can be the loudest in a room by themselves.
They are not interested in the why, just what you want from them in this social interaction.
They do not like to be told how to do something as if you do they deliberately won't do it.
They can be the loudest in a room by themselves.
The Thinkers
These are the people who do not speak until they have thoroughly thought it through.
They will only ever speak in logical order, that makes sense.
These are talkers who speak in bullet points.
These are the people who do not speak until they have thoroughly thought it through.
They will only ever speak in logical order, that makes sense.
These are talkers who speak in bullet points.
The Thinkers (Cont'd)
They are interested in facts and figures, who like to use charts and graphs.
The 'Where' is most important to them.
They are interested in facts and figures, who like to use charts and graphs.
The 'Where' is most important to them.
The Picturers
People who like their environment to be neat and tidy.
Able to spot a spelling mistake from miles away.
They hate when some body changes whatever it may be that they have organised.
People who like their environment to be neat and tidy.
Able to spot a spelling mistake from miles away.
They hate when some body changes whatever it may be that they have organised.
The Picturers (Cont'd)
Most interested in the 'When'.
This emphasises how important TIME is for these people.
When they say 10AM they mean 09:59.
They require lots of information and data to build pictures.
Most interested in the 'When'.
This emphasises how important TIME is for these people.
When they say 10AM they mean 09:59.
They require lots of information and data to build pictures.
The Sensors
These are the people who turn everything you say to them into feelings and sensations.
Process things through their body.
They are hands on and like to finish things, and have everything go well.
These are the people who turn everything you say to them into feelings and sensations.
Process things through their body.
They are hands on and like to finish things, and have everything go well.
The Sensors (Cont'd)
They like to get their hands dirty and would often be people who are in the garden or fixing cars.
They are always seeking the 'Why' in any conversation.
Usually people who must feel comfortable before they can start a task.
They like to get their hands dirty and would often be people who are in the garden or fixing cars.
They are always seeking the 'Why' in any conversation.
Usually people who must feel comfortable before they can start a task.
Communication is vital to connecting with other people.
This can help you understand people you do not understand.
Or the people around you could just be misunderstanding you.
This can help you understand people you do not understand.
Or the people around you could just be misunderstanding you.
