STRAIGHT PEOPLE, READ THIS !!!

y’all are not getting this. comparing coming out with the transition from actress to director is incredibly harmful. y’all don’t know how hard being in the closet is, and how hard it is to come out. y’all don’t understand how traumatic the 1/10
experience is for some people, and how harmful it is for it to be minimized and compared with a change in job positions. y’all have no right to defend her and talk about what is and isn’t harmful to the community.

and now, speaking as a bisexual in a wlw relationship, do 2/10
y’all understand how fucked up it is that she said she considered “a soft lesbian relationship and gentle scissoring” after breaking up with her bf?

first of all, wlw relationships aren’t a healing process for het women straight out of a breakup. the fact that all she 3/10
mentioned was sex when thinking about wlw relationships says A LOT about her and society. there’s nothing “gentler” about lesbian sex than straight sex, it’s very misogynistic to think that just bc it’s women it’s somehow more gentle, women fuck, it’s not “sweet and cute”, 4/10
women make each other come, let’s end the stigma.
but also, wlw relationships are not only about sex ??? that’s fetishizing and i’m SO incredibly tired of being a fetish, y’all don’t know how fucking awful that is.

it’s very insensitive that she mentioned dating a woman 5/10
after breaking up with her boyfriend as if it was just having ice cream for breakfast and watching romcoms till you’re over it. being in a wlw means not being able to hold your gfs hand cause you’re too scared someone might do something to you, and not being able to come out 6/10
to your family bc you’re scared they might kick you out. it means having to endure men commenting how “hot that is” and asking if they can watch. it means being fetishized, and being constantly asked how you have sex. it means being scared that your rights might be taken 7/10
away any moment, and having to fight for your rights cause you can still be denied service if you’re lgbtq. it means being insulted daily and it also means being scared and crying because you wish everything could just be normalized. but i guess she forgot that part cause 8/10
she wants “gentle scissoring”. that’s all she left out and ivisibilized with her comments.

what she said was wrong, there is no way to defend it. stop trying defend her and justify what can’t be justified, even more so if you’re not a wlw. what she said was incredibly 9/10
harmful to the community and she needs to be held accountable. 10/10
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