Relationships are very simple when you keep one golden rule in mind: Do. Not. Embarrass me.
The list of shit you can work through privately becomes MUCH shorter once you have somebody out here looking crazy.

And where ni**as, especially, often go wrong is being both trash AND sloppy. Can't do both.

Whew that second line though. Do not knock on the front door, ring the phone or pop up in the inbox.

And I'm not speaking on my own situation right now, but I've been there, and I was more mad about homegirl having the bold nerve to inbox me than the actual cheating. https://twitter.com/fatassery/status/1391526007614713858

If you are absolutely determined to belong to the streets, at least take the care and effort to keep that shit there. The minute your worlds cross, you fucked up.