This day he got angry that I wanted to go to my friends because he was with his boys and I was bored. He said I came to PE to HIM not my friends. 4 of his guy friends watched him get aggressive with me in the car and did NOTHING. I begged one friend not to leave me and he did. 1 https://twitter.com/lundimali/status/1391430960617492482

He locked me in the house and said I’m not going anywhere. I packed, he threw my things on the floor. It was a constant back and forth. He rubbished me that night and cried when he realized I’d had enough and I was so emotionless. I had no more tears left

I called him out on being abusive and he said “Call the police. Tell them I’m hitting you”. I was so defeated. I sent my voice notes during this whole shit and she said “GET THE FUCK OUT OF THERE” and I couldn’t because he locked the house.

He came on top of me, strangled me and threatened to kill me the same way Sandile killed Karabo. I had to humble myself and apologise for making him angry for wanting to leave because I wasn’t gonna walk out of there in a body bag. I couldn’t do that to my mom

We got into a fight in the bathroom once. He was standing by the door so I pulled him so he move. He said “When you touch me it makes me wanna hit you”. He strangled me again. I cried so hard and he said “You gonna walk out of here like this so everyone can see what happened?”

NYE I’m wearing an oversized T-shirt. He calls me a hoe for showing my legs because I want other men to notice me. The whole night he called me every disgusting word you can think of, all because I wore something short and he was not with me

This one defeated me. The first time he got aggressive, I left his place. He texted me in the morning and said “I needed to lay my hands on you in order to feel like I love you again”..

I rest my case..