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i& #39;m really gonna have to have an emotional talk with my mom before my 18th birthday to get off this "i have proof you had a little secret girlfriend you never told us about and i& #39;m gonna wait until you turn 18 to hold it against you" bullshit
i "dated" a girl online when i was like 13 (who follows me btw, we& #39;re friends) (hi if you see this!!) but it honestly doesn& #39;t count. we were both kids who had too much access to internet and were discovering ourselves. we were in traumatic mindsets about ourselves so we "dated".
when i was like 15, my mom made me "sign a contract" promising to expose me after i told her that i& #39;d never had a girlfriend before. i was clearly lying, i had been in a secret relationship for six (seven?) months at that point. she wants to hold the other one against me now.
she could hold this other one against me from when i was like 12 but i don& #39;t see why she should because, again, i was in a traumatic mindset about my own sexuality and was insecure and thought i& #39;d found a way to escape it. clearly i didn& #39;t.
so now i& #39;m gonna have to have a sit down and tell her that she borderline made an already traumatic event so much more horrible for me (knowingly? doubtful. intentionally? arguable.) so that she& #39;ll let this shit go because i really don& #39;t want to relive all of that.
i get the whole "laugh at the past" thing but she literally said, directly, that she plans to humiliate me. i& #39;m not down for that kind of thing when it surrounds something genuinely traumatic. make fun of me for being dirty or for saying/doing weird shit, but not for coping.
