That DJ put that woman through the most. She was out here looking like booboo the fool defending him & standing by her man. Now itâs over but he canât even grant her dignified closure. And this is without discussing abuse. You canât tell me this isnât hate.
This isnât about money. Or access to kids. Or anything like that. You were a known cheater. Now that you can cut her a check, move on with your life & do it âguilt freeâ, youâre pulling stunts? This is abusive behavior, spitefulness, entitlement.
He can afford to pay her anything she wants plus an inconvenience tax. Just pay and then go on to enjoy his jet set sluttery. Pretend she doesnât exist. Access your kids through nannies & intermediaries. But no. He wants absolute control until the end. He wants her destroyed.
I know a high net worth couple who got divorced. He cut her a check. She went about her life. He went about his. Heâs not bothering her. It could all literally be that simple. But no. If you are entitled and abusive you want to âwinâ and âshow herâ

Also thereâs nothing more pathetic than cheating husbands showing sudden concern for his kids and access to them once the divorce comes around. Spare us pls. Were you concerned about the affects your actions were having on the family when you were chasing ass?