if i see ANY of you fuckers using the term "favorite person" and you don't have bpd im going to bully you so bad
fuck you fuck you fuck you /neg

LET'S GO... what is a favorite person? you can look for more about it here: https://www.borderlinetalksback.com/post/what-is-a-favourite-person

if you dont feel like reading it, having a favorite person is basically experience an intense attachment to a single person, and that person can (non-intentionally) control everything about us,,, our emotions, our doings, EVERYTHING.

your fp can be anyone. a romantic partner, your parents, ever your best friend.
if they are sad, you get sad. if they are happy, you get happy!!

so yeah, if you don't have BPD dont go around talking about the term like its your space to talk about it. it's not.

by own experience, you wouldn't like having a fp. it's tiring.
you don't experience the daily anxiety and suffering that i do. you don't experience the empty and upsetting feelings that I DO.
you don't know nothing.

you DON'T experience the same fear of abandonment i do, or self destructive behaviour because of a fp, do you?
you don't? then stop. just stop.
stop joking about my disorder like its something i would laugh about. it's not funny. IT'S NOT.

im literally having a breakdown writing this and oh my god if you dont feel touched shut up shut up shut up shut sorrt i cant calm dkwn its kinda because of my fp and aaaaa i needed to discount my madness on something sorry
anyway i hope this thread helped you