after this tweet getting a little bit of recognition ive decided to make an actual thread with actual tips. -
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there& #39;s no formula to get urself that one boy (or two? three?), keep in mind you can& #39;t control one another& #39;s feelings and this is just some of the things i& #39;ve done and still do with my boyfriend and i think that makes our relationship stronger <3
no. 1— show them you think of them.
saw a meme? a funny tweet? something they like? tag them! screenshot it and send them, let them know they matter to you. i know they won& #39;t believe you& #39;re annoying.
saw a meme? a funny tweet? something they like? tag them! screenshot it and send them, let them know they matter to you. i know they won& #39;t believe you& #39;re annoying.
o.p of me and my boyfriend. my little boy always spams me with edits of people i stan and ships that reminds him of us. he also always sends me what he& #39;s listening too and i always listen to the same songs. its a good way to connect with each other and i feel seen!
no. 2 — be affectionate!
even if you& #39;re not a clingy person, you can try your best to be affectionate. its even more important if you& #39;re not usually open with feelings, it& #39;ll make them feel special and that you trust them! say things like you want to hug them, compliments,
even if you& #39;re not a clingy person, you can try your best to be affectionate. its even more important if you& #39;re not usually open with feelings, it& #39;ll make them feel special and that you trust them! say things like you want to hug them, compliments,
every little thing matter and makes big difference, at least for me. im usually very affectionate with my friends so it wasn& #39;t hard for me but if it is for you, don& #39;t pressure. let it come naturally. if you feel comfortable with that person, you surely will be able someday.n
no. 3 — be there for them.
we& #39;re humans, we can& #39;t be active all the time. but if you realize they& #39;re feeling down, reassure them you& #39;re there! show them you care. my boyfriend is always there for me and that absolutely makes me feel loved.
we& #39;re humans, we can& #39;t be active all the time. but if you realize they& #39;re feeling down, reassure them you& #39;re there! show them you care. my boyfriend is always there for me and that absolutely makes me feel loved.
no. 4 — be yourself!
that& #39;s dumb and cliche, but it& #39;s the truth. follow your heart! do whatever feels right. don& #39;t be too impulsive, but just treat them like you& #39;d like to be treated. i know they won& #39;t judge you. and if they do, they& #39;re the wrong person to you.
that& #39;s dumb and cliche, but it& #39;s the truth. follow your heart! do whatever feels right. don& #39;t be too impulsive, but just treat them like you& #39;d like to be treated. i know they won& #39;t judge you. and if they do, they& #39;re the wrong person to you.
here are some sentences that can be reassuring:
"i miss you!"
"better now" if they ask how are you!
"have you eaten?"
"i& #39;m always here for you no matter what!"
"i support your decisions"
"i saw this today and thought of you"
"i& #39;m proud of you!"
"text me when you can"
"i miss you!"
"better now" if they ask how are you!
"have you eaten?"
"i& #39;m always here for you no matter what!"
"i support your decisions"
"i saw this today and thought of you"
"i& #39;m proud of you!"
"text me when you can"
"but leo, how can they differ it from a friendship?"
yes, the things i listed can be done in a friendship. and honestly, there& #39;s no secret like i said before. my boyfriend per example were always oblivious even when i thought i was being too obvious, so i had to use more+
yes, the things i listed can be done in a friendship. and honestly, there& #39;s no secret like i said before. my boyfriend per example were always oblivious even when i thought i was being too obvious, so i had to use more+
explicit words and ways to show him i really really liked him. don& #39;t be afraid to say the L word and that you& #39;d like to be with them (when it& #39;s the right time)
"leo, where can i meet boys?"
here! mlm twt is a great way to find boys who yearn for boyfriends. i met my boyfriend on twitter, because we& #39;re both editors and had interests in common. if you& #39;re a content creator that& #39;s a good idea too. interact with them, eventually dm,+
here! mlm twt is a great way to find boys who yearn for boyfriends. i met my boyfriend on twitter, because we& #39;re both editors and had interests in common. if you& #39;re a content creator that& #39;s a good idea too. interact with them, eventually dm,+
and try to become friends. it can be awkward in the beginning but hey, every kind of relationship starts awkward! if you& #39;re looking for someone irl it can be harder, but not impossible! look for lgbt groups in your area, or even use dating apps if you& #39;re old enough to do so.
"leo, what if i don& #39;t know if they like boys?"
then i guess the best way is to ask. don& #39;t stalk or try to find out from someone else, it can do more harm than good. if they& #39;re not comfortable with this kind of question, wait. patience is the key.
then i guess the best way is to ask. don& #39;t stalk or try to find out from someone else, it can do more harm than good. if they& #39;re not comfortable with this kind of question, wait. patience is the key.
bonus tips:
- give them special nicknames;
- spend quality time (calls, watch parties, playing a game together, long deep conversations);
- use matching icons! me and my bf use constantly.
- send them couples and say "it& #39;s us!" its works. trust me.
- give them special nicknames;
- spend quality time (calls, watch parties, playing a game together, long deep conversations);
- use matching icons! me and my bf use constantly.
- send them couples and say "it& #39;s us!" its works. trust me.