A while ago, a thoughtful and respectful man DM'd me to seek advice. An atheist who really loved his Christian girlfriend of 5 years and felt pressure to attend church and perform religiosity in public to keep the relationship. He just updated me about how it all turned out.

And this is a Nigerian man, by the way. Despite whatever bullshit you may hear about me on these streets, I have very loving and mutually respectful interactions with Nigerian men all the time.

Um, dudes in my DMs asking how they can also find atheist girlfriends, chineke o,I am not a matchmaker!!! Become a feminist and start showing loudly and publicly how you reject other patriarchal institutions besides religion, and likeminded women who want you will see you.