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How to know you are getting played in your relationship...
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Nothing ever moves forward
Anyone who wants a long term relationship with someone they love (or, think they love) will want to see some sort of progression at some point.
Someone who is playing you will tell you they want these things, but never actually follow through.
You never get to decide anything.
Relationships are about compromise. They are about two people who want to see each other happy and put in effort to make it happen
They’re always making you feel guilty.
When you do finally decide to do something, whether it involves them or not, they will always have something negative to say about it
They are being overly possessive and toying with your emotions, this will not get better, break the chains now.
Their level of closeness is always changing
Someone who loves and cares for you will be consistent in the way they act towards you. Consistency is a big part of a healthy relationship
They never make real commitments.
The lack of willingness to commit to, say, a weekend away is more than just a scheduling conflict.
They only do nice things to get what they want.
Any act of kindness for the sake of a reward, is not really an act of kindness.
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