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Kinda love casual relationships honestly. It& #39;s like being friends with a bit of tension but also a lot of respect. When I was younger (4ish years ago now) it really wasn& #39;t my thing (probably because I was a lot more insecure).
Maybe it& #39;s obvious but it& #39;s astounding to me how much self love improves relationships. Sometimes the transition period is hard but it& #39;s definitely worth it.
Obviously the people from my past still mean something to me but life improves so much when you stop worrying if you mean something to them.
I don& #39;t blindly assume that I mean something to everyone, even if they& #39;re my friend. The thing is being okay with not meaning that much to someone because you have other people and they do too (and if you don& #39;t now you will eventually)
Especially if you used to mean alot to this person (or vice versa) and it just isn& #39;t the same anymore. Being mad about the past is a zero sum game.
Unrequited love is a bad religion obviously but also getting older less mentally ill and just having better emotional self control has been super rewarding. Engaging in a bad religion is not a traumatic be experience the way it used to be because you move on.
