Yk what after seeing this today I’ve decided to begin the conversation on how not to sexualize the boys, I’ll simplify it into 3 easy steps for some people unable to grasp the concept easily (open for my guide!)

1.) New Content
When we get new content from one of the boys simply admire them for their beauty as a person and aesthetically !!NOT IN A SEXUAL MANNER!! Yes the 1D boys are beautiful and incredibly attractive and we can appreciate and admire that without objectifying them +

+ or acting like they do everything with sexual intent. Finally if it does happen to make you h word or anything like that simply keep it to yourself or in a private conversation, do not post it publicly where the boys can see it as they have expressed it makes them uncomfortable

2. Sexual Discourse
First off, simply don’t participate in this. That includes in depth top or bottom debates, conversations on kinks or anything pertaining to the boys sex lives. No matter what their preferences are in bed it is absolutely none of our business.

3. Commenting on Desired Sexual Encounters
Personally I don’t care what you want the boys to do to you and neither does the Tl or anyone on tiktok especially. Reducing the boys to sexual objects is sexualizing them and it’s not okay to post publicly +

+ again if you really feel as if you have to share these desires with someone do it in a private conversation that the boys have absolutely no access to.

Finally, I understand it’s completely your decision to be open with your personal sexuality or sex life and that’s okay, but when sharing on a PUBLIC domain it is completely unacceptable to include people in that didn’t consent whether they are celebrities or not.