So as I’m reading all the random bullshit out there, I’d just like to state that I identify as a person, and I have been pregnant and given birth, and I feel extra seen by people who refer to me as being a person. And I am still a person after being neutered.

Also, I gave birth to a person, who is fully their own person, and who does not need to exist in relation to me, and who is not responsible for anything about how I see myself. Because my mission was to give a person a life which was never mine.

So if there are people out there who are super hung up on being something OTHER than a person, centering around whether or not they’ve been pregnant or given birth and there are niche terms for those things... I hope they fuck off into the sun forever.