The thing about the big Resident Evil Lady is that people being horny for her but silent about the fatphobia in the same trailer is just another sharp reminder that there is a a right way to be "big" and its absolutely only if you are big for others people's pleasure.

By big for other peoples pleasure I of course mean that you take up space in a way that other people can derive sexual or aesthetic pleasure from. When you take up space in the way just a normal fat one does you instantly become greedy, or inconvenient, or disgusting.

I see this with this websites love of Himbos too. Ostensibly it should be something positive--who doesn't love a kind man--but increasingly it feels like a way to say that large men (either muscled OR fat) can only take up space in a way that is gratifying to the viewer.