tips on how to make unlearning comphet more bearable a thread:
1.) make jokes, there’s nothing wrong with ragging on men there’s nothing wrong with hating men those emotions are completely valid embrace them and make all the jokes at men’s expense that u want it’s actually therapeutic
2.) reach out to the community we are all here unlearning together n we shouldn’t have to do it alone if you ever feel overwhelmed by comphet/the patriarchy my dms are open to everyone 💙
3.) be kind to urself unlearning any type of systematic oppression will be frustrating you might find urself mad at past situations or past relationships and that is completely valid forgive yourself it’s ok i believe in you and ur journey
4.) take breaks you don’t have to unpack trauma every day you don’t even have to every week this is YOUR journey pace urself as needed take ur time n when ur vibrations get low re visit tip 1-2
5.) if you find urself lost reach out to the community n read on comphet as much as you want but just know you don’t have to soak up everything unlearning comphet is to help you grow as a person n everyone has different experiences so not everything will fit ur situation
n that is ok you don’t even have to do anything i’m telling you to in this thread im speaking from my experience n what i personally struggle with
6.) block out negativity i struggle with this HARD but before you get to the point where you’re overwhelmed by non lesbians who don’t understand ur experience block/mute them out
i promise it’s not worth arguing with every lesbophobe on this app to hell with everyone else protect urself
and black/tma/trans/disabled lesbians block out other lesbians if you have too y’all the first person i blocked on this acc was a white lesbian do what you need to too protect yourself
other lesbians feel free too add n non lesbians feel free to rt for ur lesbian moots remember my dms are always open to everyone sending u all positive vibes on ur journey 💙💙💙
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