Many are comfortable with their mom’s being unhappy as long as their family stays together. That’s wild to me but it is what it is. This Mother’s Day skip that Tom Ford perfume get her a lawyer plus some divorce papers.

Just because your parents still live together doesn’t mean your home isn’t broken...

"He's a good man and provider for the kids but he treats me bad I’ll stay for the kids"... He’s not a good man. Some moms have signed up for the "suffer head olympics" and think you’re goin to win a gold medal at the end for endurance.

Your kids are going to grow up, thank you for your "sacrifice" and bounce to their own new families while you’re still stuck in your misery. I’ve never heard of a child who thanked their mom as an adult for staying in an unhappy marriage for years.

"Oh I stayed because of the kids" but misery loves company and you didn't hide your misery very well from your kids. You sometimes took out your misery on those kids and made their own lives miserable. How many beatings were motivated by your misery?

"It's not that easy to leave" when has life been easy? Who said it was supposed to be easy? Your happiness will always come at a price. Freedom always come at a price.

"he's a horrible husband but a great father". That just sound so dysfunctional and abusive. I mean your kids witnessed you being mistreated, how is he a good father then?

Your kids don't need a father figure if the father figure is going to be a trash husband