biggest lesson i have learned from spending way too much time on here: always listen to the criticisms you get when people are upset with you.

but once you’ve done that, if you feel like you’re in the right, don’t try to argue or explain yourself further, just move on.

some people may hate you forever, and it may feel unfair. let them hate you anyway.

you have a strong enough sense of what is right and wrong that you know if you fucked up. if you — not your groupchat, *you* — sincerely feel you’re ok, then you are.

let them hate you.

if you get mad at this post, that’s fine. im sure you have your reasons. all the best.