tw // r slur, n word, sexual abuse, mention of rape, unconsentual masturbation in vcs, transphobia, body shaming

this is a byf on @/feverymcytstan, this isnt to cancel an old friend or whatever, this is genuinely something bad that i know people would be -

uncomfortable following if they knew, this thread contains alot of sensitive topics, and while i wish no harm on the person i find what they did fucking repulsive, please dont send death threats but dont excuse any of this either, things were attempted to be solved in dms but

we were given silence and just general annoyance

//r slur

fems has called me and other nd people in our friend group retarded consistently, if we count vcs and old servers its likely in the thousands, we would talk about our struggles being autistic and get called "retarded" or "special kid" etc

After making a lighthearted joke about it we were told to fuck off and that we were being annoying, i asked ram why they find it okay to pretend to care on twitter then insult their friends and this was the response + another ss

directly after confronting them about this they retweeted several autism awareness threads, faking activism only 20 minutes later

// n word, d slur

fems has consistently used slurs they cant reclaim against others, calling my black friend the n word and saying the d slur, while I'm pretty sure they dont use the d slur anymore the n word was casually brought up by them as a joke that they used to say it

// sexual abuse

fems has told me and another friend that they had 1. masturbated to the thought of us, and 2. masturbated in vc to our voices, mentioning it like a casual joke among friends when another friend below 13 was in that call

they consistently did nsfw jokes with the younger friend, asking to go in the shower with them and sending nsfw, etc,

// pressuring to masturbate

they consistently pressured one of our friends to masturbate, even sending porn to do it too and asking every vc if they had, to the point said friend had to lie to them to get out of the pressure

// mention of rape

fems has done several rape rps with their ex @tartagliacore and others, they were told they were uncomfortable and one of the others they did this with already had sexual trauma that was abused in these interactions.

after he had left, fems told us that it was actually their ex who had instigated the sexual interactions, we believed them until we were given screenshots proving otherwise

// transphobia

fems has said to their ex who recently came out as nonbinary - who had expressed his extreme dysphoria - that they would "miss their chest", calling them their big tit goth gf and sexualising their body

// body shaming, mention of ED

after telling fems that i was suspected to have an ED, they would insult me on my body, saying " i could break you in half" "youre so thin I could snap you", even sexualising my body by saying "if we had sex they would be worried theyd break me"

a large amount of these things said were in old servers - that they ran and deleted - or in vc, but we do have some screenshots of alot of the bad shit, other things may be added if we find screenshots