The whole "I was misdiagnosed with Borderline/Bipolar/Narcissistic Personality, but actually I& #39;m just Autistic/an ADHDer" narrative so many people have is like... so so close to identifying the actual problem. and yet also so so far
consider..... maybe no one actually has "is an evil manipulator" disease... and that pushing against the conception of *any* person as an evil/disordered personality is more important than scrubbing only yourself clean of those associations