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" Har hassi khushi ki hassi nahi hoti" - Shaurya
"Pain pain hota hai, Sir. Koi alag naam koi alag alag pehchan ho sakta hai. Lekin kaam toh ek hi karta hai. Dil dukhane ka." - Anokhi
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" Har hassi khushi ki hassi nahi hoti" - Shaurya
"Pain pain hota hai, Sir. Koi alag naam koi alag alag pehchan ho sakta hai. Lekin kaam toh ek hi karta hai. Dil dukhane ka." - Anokhi
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"What& #39;s past is prologue" - Shakespeare
The past is the introduction to our present life, the first 30+ episodes are an introduction to the present day ShaKhi.
Their past has been full of high and lows, fear, neglect, abuse and trauma.
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The past is the introduction to our present life, the first 30+ episodes are an introduction to the present day ShaKhi.
Their past has been full of high and lows, fear, neglect, abuse and trauma.
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In essence, the adult we turn into, is largely shaped by the childhood we had. Since our childhood experiences differs, no 2 adults behave or react to the same situation in the same way.
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When in an urgent emotional crisis, people resort to their coping mechanism and react differently. Some resort to self- defeating mechanism like accepting the suffering and learned helplessness - like Babli.
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Some bottle everything up until something trigger them and they become aggressive and confrontational - Like Shaurya.
And some become evasive, they detach themselves or at least pretend to detach- Anokhi.
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And some become evasive, they detach themselves or at least pretend to detach- Anokhi.
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Her reaction due to something that goes much deeper than what is visible to the eyes- just like Shaurya questioning Anokhi& #39;s character was more about himself projecting his insecurities, Anokhi stonewalling him is a projection of her own fears.
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She knows Shaurya loves her. She fears confronting him, because she fears that he& #39;d accept that he has misogynistic views. She fears that a confrontation would destroy the already cracked idol that she had built in her heart.
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She is vulnerable and has no one to talk to. Babli is family and can& #39;t give a neutral perspective and so, she is unable to open up emotionally by herself for fear that it could pave the way for additional pain.
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That& #39;s why she went back to her "default setting"-her childhood - because no matter how abusive it was, she has learnt to be immune to it and since this pattern worked once, she thinks it will work this time as well.
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My heart clenched when Babli and Anokhi described their childhood as "happy".
They& #39;ve literally numbed a part of themselves - which has allowed them to be emotionally detached (is a known result of neglect and abuse) and it is a means of survival.
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They& #39;ve literally numbed a part of themselves - which has allowed them to be emotionally detached (is a known result of neglect and abuse) and it is a means of survival.
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Anokhi has emotionally numbed herself. (Emotional numbing=blocking feelings, emotions in view of some perceived threat). Her being evasive, indifferent, non-caring is part and parcel of her way to cope.
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She was looking at Shaurya as a potential husband-we often we use our past to predict our future. She& #39;s been surrounded by women who& #39;s had their life ruined by man, which is why she is running away at the first sign that Shaurya may cut off her wings.
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It& #39;s more about herself, her past, than it is about him.
It& #39;s not about Shaurya having to prove his love over and over again, it& #39;s about reassuring her of his love. It may be taxing for Shaurya because he has his own baggage, but it is how it is.
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It& #39;s not about Shaurya having to prove his love over and over again, it& #39;s about reassuring her of his love. It may be taxing for Shaurya because he has his own baggage, but it is how it is.
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They do not have power over their past, but they have over their present and so they& #39;d grow out of it. It& #39;s only the beginning. Just like we gave Shaurya time after the library scene, we need to give her time to come to terms with her past.
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Its a bit heart-breaking that some people believe that Anokhi is "enjoying" while Shaurya is in so much pain. Trust me, it& #39;s just a facade. Plus, she doesn& #39;t even know he is still missing.
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Anokhi& #39;s emotional reactions are pretty toned, so, we may not see her shedding a pool of tears. But, her remembering him thru& #39;out her day is clear that she yearns for him. She is longing for the "what could I beens", she& #39;s longing to be longed for.
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Empathising with Anokhi does not mean I love Shaurya any less or that I don& #39;t understand his pajn. Both of them have a piece of my heart and I pain for these wounded souls. Time may not have healed their wounds, but this relationship might just.
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What both of them have to learn is that their past may affect their present, but it should not define it.
Chalo, im done
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