A lot of the tradwife guys are thinly veiled sexual fetishists; their fetish is like Jordan Peterson’s abstract psychological reductionist dynamic of the “princess and the dragon”. They imagine themselves as dragons who are entitled to a pure docile virgin that they can violate.

These same people probably also watch cuckold porn. They are at the same time disgusted and pleased by the idea of a woman being violated by a monster (whether it’s them or another man); all the archetypes are already there in their communities. The bourgeois, the anime fan etc.

They are also probably all the same people who read things like vanilla doujins before getting turned off of pornography by RW grifters. They think it’s weird for a girl to suck off her boyfriend. It’s a fetishization of the “normal”, in contrast with extremely depraved fetishes.