#BPDAwarenessMonth
Here's a list of important, helpful resources from someone WITH BPD and not from TV crime shows that make us look like villains.
A lot of the posts will come from this website:
https://www.borderlinetalksback.com/what-is-borderline-personality-diso
Here's a list of important, helpful resources from someone WITH BPD and not from TV crime shows that make us look like villains.

A lot of the posts will come from this website:
https://www.borderlinetalksback.com/what-is-borderline-personality-diso
What does BPD feel like to the pwBPD?
https://www.borderlinetalksback.com/post/what-borderline-personality-disorder-feels-like
Emotional Dysregulation is a key defining feature of BPD https://www.borderlinetalksback.com/post/what-is-emotion-dysregulation
https://www.borderlinetalksback.com/post/what-borderline-personality-disorder-feels-like
Emotional Dysregulation is a key defining feature of BPD https://www.borderlinetalksback.com/post/what-is-emotion-dysregulation
What is a Favorite Person - Explained in detail from a pwBPD. As someone with BPD, this is one of my favorite websites. https://www.borderlinetalksback.com/post/what-is-a-favourite-person
This person's BPD posts are a resource I share often.
How to communicate with someone, especially a romantic partner, who has BPD during a conflict
https://alesbianandherlaptop.com/2019/05/31/5-ways-to-better-communicate-during-a-conflict-with-someone-with-bpd/
How to reassure your pwBPD when they're stuck in their own thoughts https://alesbianandherlaptop.com/2019/05/30/6-ways-to-better-reassure-someone-with-bpd/
How to communicate with someone, especially a romantic partner, who has BPD during a conflict
https://alesbianandherlaptop.com/2019/05/31/5-ways-to-better-communicate-during-a-conflict-with-someone-with-bpd/
How to reassure your pwBPD when they're stuck in their own thoughts https://alesbianandherlaptop.com/2019/05/30/6-ways-to-better-reassure-someone-with-bpd/
A very clean cut way to explain what 'splitting' is for people who don't experience it https://www.priorygroup.com/blog/understanding-splitting-in-borderline-personality-disorder
Are there treatments for BPD?
Yes and No. There is no magical drug to take that can make BPD go away as it's often the result of trauma or neglect. The most effective treatment is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy which requires the pwBPD to be able to work on their disorder. <c>
Yes and No. There is no magical drug to take that can make BPD go away as it's often the result of trauma or neglect. The most effective treatment is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy which requires the pwBPD to be able to work on their disorder. <c>
<c> Bc of this, pwBPD are often turned away from therapists, because many of us aren't able to work on things the same as other people. Our learned thinking is how we cope with loss, pain, etc - to abandon those learned habits opens us up to a lot of vulnerability, so we don't.
Someone with BPD has to be eager and WILLING to work on themselves to be able to learn healthier habits, but at that same time, a solid, reassuring, and sturdy support system can help them get there with time.
Here's another useful thread that breaks BPD down into slides https://twitter.com/AlsJane_therapy/status/1388450761802137600